Im not cheatin on her
2006-10-09 11:15:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'M NOT GAY SORRY IF I GAVE U GUYS THE WRONG IDEA: )
2006-10-09 12:53:51 · update #1
Sometimes you can not do anything about somebodies insecurities. You may be the most faithfulest guy on earth (yea right) but she will never believe you if she don't feel like she is the best she can be. But my advice is to try to make her feel special and make her feel like she matters in your life and maybe one day she will come around.
2006-10-09 11:18:02 · answer #1 · answered by FeeLnUFeeLnMe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well bro you have to be rational. Can you control what she thinks? No. You can't. So there is no reason to get mad or sad or spend hours of wasted time trying to convince her that you are faithful. If you've given her no reason to believe that you've cheated then she is being irrational. Maybe she just needs to be reassured about your feelings for her. Especially if she is the emotional type. If so then with time comes trust. She should be able to see your character and your virtue and trustworthiness- in time. This also may be worse. She may just be the jealous type and no matter how much reassurance you give her she will always accuse you of being unfaithful. If that is the case then you are going to have to make a decision. Are you willing to deal with this kind of behavior for as long as the relationship last? Jealousy breeds more jealousy. So unless she finds help (CHRIST) then it will only get worse and soon she'll have you 'by the balls' and you be in some real trouble. So either get her saved or RUN. But if this is not a man-with-woman relationship then you both have no future for true happiness and satisfaction because homosexuality is NOT the way God designed the relationship so no matter how hard a gay couple tries it will NEVER EVER be blessed.
2006-10-09 11:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by talk2much 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words. So dont just tell her "im not cheating on you" because this will probably mean nothing to her. I think you should show her exactly how much you care by doing something really special and do it "just because" not for an anniversary or anything and tell her that you love her and couldn't imagine spending your life with anyone else. If after that she still thinks you are cheating just tell her to shut up and stop being so possessive! hehe
2006-10-09 11:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to assure her that you're not cheating on her and inform her that without trust, a relationship is impossible to maintain, therefore she has to learn to trust you and your word.
If you've done nothing to hurt her, she shouldn't be worrying about you doing something wrong in the first place. She may have trust issues in the past but the two of you have to work together to help her build her trust back up.
2006-10-09 11:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i was gonna answer ur question, but when i saw ur avatar i had to puke. Get a life (with a guy!!) u don't deserve to have advice because u r gay.
and im not being mean im just stating the facts and tryin to nock some sense into u, but i really can't because im typing and not hitting.
2006-10-09 11:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by Toto! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are one of those feminine looking lesbians then remember "eatin' aint cheatin' "
If you are one of those butch dykes you should just swallow the barrel end of a shotgun and pull the trigger.
If she is one of those butch dykes you should pull the trigger when she swallows.
If she is one of those hottie lesbians (there is a difference between a lesbian and a dyke, lesbians are hot and willing to go with guys, dykes are butch and ugly who want to look like men), then the two of you can hang out with me sometime.
2006-10-09 11:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a conversation with her, apparrently she has some trust issues. You guys need to get to the root of the problem to fully understand why she feels that way. Don't shove all of your opions down her throat after all it eed to be a conversation not just a one way thing.
2006-10-09 11:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by nelly1052002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prove to her that ur not. pay more attention to her, talk to her more, just be honest about everything. and let her know how much she means to u every now and again. maybe shes being insecure or poeple are feeding her the wring ideas. find out why she thinks this.
2006-10-09 11:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to start with plz give more details! now if you r gay then find another girls to hang out with more than half the population is female. if u r not guy next time specify that.
2006-10-09 11:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by coolgirljuhi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i would tell her no then if she keeps it up i would say hell yea the mailman the pizza guy her dad then maybe she may start realizing she sounds like an idiot if not its time to move on to a different person
2006-10-09 11:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by Mark L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋