I've been seeing this girl off and on over the last few years casually. Recently it started getting more serious but she lives a few hours away. She might move back to my town for a new job in a few months, and she might not. So the other night she tells me that she thinks we should stop talking because she wants to be with me so bad and can't. I told her she should move back anyways if she really wants to be with me, since she was planning on moving in the near future. She said I need to give her an ultimatum. I told her it's not that easy, and that she needs to make that decision for herself. She said she would think about it this week, then let me know. Any advice on how to take the good, or bad news?
2006-10-09 11:22:15 · 12 answers · asked by Smirx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes its possible to care for someone so much you dont want to talk to them but usually people say that because of peoples bad choices. If she doesn't move back so she can be with you she doesn't care as much as she says she does. Just think theres more girls out there that are willing to spend time with you & she's missing out if she decides not to be with you
2006-10-09 11:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
definately. I wouldnt say ever again. I'm actually in the same situation. Ive been with a girl for a few years, and have doubts if she is EVERYTHING im looking for. She is great, im not sure if i should continue with us or not. We've been in this state of limbo for a month or so, and Ive decided talking to her while we arent together is a bad idea. We are still so connected. So i think its either gotta be committed, or just cut off. And even tho this girl loves me to death, for her sake i cant keep her hanging and wondering. Its not fair. But, i would talk to her way down the road shes a great person
2006-10-09 18:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by manty1311 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will be bad news. No one wants to stop talking to someone just because they can't see them. That's all the more reason for them to want to see you, because of the way they feel about you.
If she doesn't break it off, you probably should. Don't keep holding on to someone who wants you to let go. Good luck.
2006-10-09 18:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by sleepingbeauty123 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, like a man. Women, play head games to see what a man is made of. Just grin and bear it. You'll come out on top!!
2006-10-09 18:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess so...
If you love someone so much...you should be able to accept any kind of decision they make...even though that decision may be painful...
you may think this answer is stupid....actually...I've never been in a relationship before....so you might won't want to take this advise...
2006-10-09 18:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
most likly she is seeing someone else bad excuse not wanting to talk tell her straight up what you want if she acts crazy than play the he who cares the least wins try it it works
2006-10-09 18:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by Mark L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I have experienced that. Sometimes its easier to move on than have someone in your life not in the way you want them to.
2006-10-09 18:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by buffyfan80 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Theres an ole' saying...
...If ya' luv' something
Let it go free
If it returns to ya'
It was ya's to begin with
If it doesn't
It was never ya's to begin with!!!
Follow ya' heart...Break a leg!!!
2006-10-09 18:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to talk to b'itches in the first place. Ruins my nut.
2006-10-09 18:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by aztris 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never had that feeling but do what is in your heart.
2006-10-09 18:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by bubbles26 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋