we spend lots of time together and chat on the phone most nights for this last month. i dont want to mess up the friendship but everytime i look at here i wish she was mine.. i dont know what would b worse getting turned down or not finding out and having to look at her with other people..
2006-10-09 11:13:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know how u feel i'm in the same boat the only differents is mine is taken so i cant make a move i so wish i could i think you should let her know how you feel she might feel the same way
2006-10-09 11:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a tough one. I think you should sleep on it a couple more nights, really think about how you want to approach the situation, & her. If you really want to be with her, then ask her if she wants to hang out some night in the near future. Make plans and just make sure that there's a time that you would have the opportunity to talk to her. Let her know that you are developing these feelings for her, but you don't want it to ruin you rfriendship or make it awkward. The worst that can happen is she says shes not interested. If thats the case just be yourself and dont act different around her, or the friendship will slowly but surely deteriorate.Good luck!
2006-10-09 11:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YAY!! a question i have some experience in. Talk to her and see what she thinks maybe she feels the same way about you. Me and my husband met the same way he wasnt in a relationship but it seemed he was with his ex just because he was always over there. Anyway we started off as friends he would call to talk and i would do the same. We had the we are just friends talk and mutually decided to just be friends. Things didnt end up that way though. We then had a talk that being more than friends would hurt the relationship. We had sex all the while of being afraid that it would hurt the friendship. I guess we both had more feelings towards eachother than we let on. Then here we are 8 years later and 1 child 1 on the way. We decided that we were eachothers best friends and why should best friends get married and have children. Its a wonderful relationship. My point is talk to her and see what she thinks, hopefully yours will be just as good as mine is.
2006-10-09 11:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i have read, it sounds that she feels the same as you. who is phoning who?(are you phoning her the most or is she phoning you the most?) who suggests the most, when to spend time with each other? if she is phoning you and suggesting that you meet up a lot then it could be she feels the same. I hope you understand. who is doing all the chasing? are you equally phoning and meeting eachother then you both want to be with each other but be warn she may only want a friend if she has just ended a relationship with someone. Only you can anwer and know these answers. my guess is that she is interested.
good luck and go for it!
2006-10-09 12:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by b1uecee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Tell her how you feel. Odds are she is feeling the same way if you are spending that much time together. If you do not say something you will think about it for the rest of your life, and if she does happen to get a girlfriend, are you going to be Happy watching them together?? Tell her... You will be surprised how we think!! Good Luck!!! Get on that phone right now and tell her how you feel before it is too late!!
2006-10-09 11:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by dolly51002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say tell her how you feel. Let her know that it's okay if she doesn't feel the same way, but that you'd like to remain friends if at all possible. And, say, if she doesnt feel the same in the end, atleast you'll eventually be able to move on y'know? So tell her! Go for the gold! You'll never know if you don't tell her!
2006-10-09 11:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWWW what a sweet yet sad question yes it does hurt when someone you like - likes someone else I would ask her out and go from there and ask her if she likes anyone at this time and if she tells you no tell her that you are interested in her but if she tells you that she likes you as a friend tell her cool and move on at least you will know and you can go from there good luck to you
2006-10-09 11:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know exactly where you are mate, been there, got scorched, will never make that mistake again.
Ask the girl out, if she says NO then knock the friendship on the head. You don't have to be nasty just start calling less and seeing less of her. It's better that than wasting your life hoping her feelings will change....they won't.
2006-10-09 11:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anchor Cranker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and ruin the friendship. Guys can't have girls for friends especially if they have an increment of personality, smarts, and looks. This is something you might as well learn now.
2006-10-09 11:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her in 4 a penny in 4 a pound life is 2 bloody short to say 2 urself wot if so just ask her or you will never know and that will be worse 4 u
2006-10-09 11:18:43 · answer #10 · answered by neil c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋