Im a very attractive guy, im handsome, cuite and have the best personality and yet i still dont understand why girls are afraid to ask me out, her and there i'll get girls come up to me and complement me on my good looks and i'll get alot of girls checking me out but I dont undertand why they dont have the balls, guts, confidence, and courage to ask me out for gods sake whats the problem I cant go up and talk to every girl, Im getting tired of it and Ive seriously considered going gay just simply because guys are so much easier what can i do being a very attractive guy to make life simpler. What should i do? (by the way it gets tiresome after a while knowing that you can get with any girl you want)
2006-10-09 11:20:13 · 20 answers · asked by Who 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not concieded or an asshole I just know that im sexy because I am its not my fault i was born good looking and developed a very attractive persoanllitly seriously I know what it is to be concieded and to be an asshole so dont missjudge my question and look at it from a persepective with respect
2006-10-09 11:33:17 · update #1
My problem isnt that I cant get girls becuase i can and i have and thats why i know im amazing and special ive heard it soo many times but im serious it gets tirsome after awhile and I dont feel as attracted to women as i used to I used to be attracted to good looks but now its personality and now i look at guys the same way i did girls so its not that i cant get girls because i get 9/10 girls that i ask out
2006-10-09 11:37:45 · update #2
dont read me wrong
2006-10-09 11:40:43 · update #3
I am a nice guy to every girl i meet and im not arrogant at all dont read me like that im just telling you my situation
2006-10-09 11:42:09 · update #4
im feeling alot of bad vibe and hell if some girl put down my gender i would to but maby you should think about it why do i feel this way hey maby im right ...
2006-10-09 11:48:00 · update #5
the question is why are girls pussys, insecure and shy can any girls even anwser that correctly
2006-10-09 11:49:17 · update #6
man im not a pussy!!! ill ask a guy out on the spot if i want to. its not that hard. its just 6 simple words for christ sake. spit them out!!! its not that hard at all. hmm.....now that i think about it girls really r pussys......damn thats sad!!!! lol
2006-10-09 11:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by punk_kikyo_16 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one likes to be rejected. If a girl senses you are receptive and interested in her and she likes your personality she might suggest that the two of you get to know each other better. Women are attracted to good looking men but it is probably not shyness that would inhibit a woman from approaching you, rather it would be that you seem not to be approachable. When a girl talks to you be very silent and listen carefully. She will feel more confident to become involved with you.
2006-10-09 20:21:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to realize that their entire world doesn't revolve around you and maybe you're not quite the gift to women you seem to think you are. Moods are contagious, so if you relax around them then they will do the same. And if you're considering being gay just because of this then THAT is the real problem here. Doesn't is seem extremely conceded for you to think that your not getting asked out is somehow everyone else's fault and not somehow your own? And the language with which you use to describe women only reinforces your over inflated view of yourself. Stop being so narcissistic.
2006-10-09 11:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by jbrowning001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay dude...let me break it down for you...being one of those unfortunate enough to be stricken with an unattractive face. Alot of girls are intimidated by goodlooking guys and are afraid to approach feeling that they'll be turned down. If you really want a girl then trying getting up and talking to THEM instead. Are you sure you're not the insecure one? You can't expect us girls to do all the work. And with the attitude:"I'm hot so I can get any girl I want" isnt going to get you anywhere either. If you're nice and try to show girls that they CAN approach you then you wont have any problems with dating. Especially if you look as good as you say you do.
2006-10-09 11:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question sucks but i had to answer you. I am 31, fairly decent looking, decent body getting a belly though, etc, ect. I have a super hot, 22 year old former model for a live in girlfriend. It isn't about how you look. It is about how you act and treat people. She says I am confident in who I am, have a great attitude, and am romantic and manly and that is what attracted her to me in the beginning. After I got with her, I made sure that I continued to treat her like a lady and as my friend. We have a great loving relationship and I may ask her to marry me!
2006-10-09 11:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by dumb guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they don't ask you out because they don't like the way you call their entire gender insecure and shy. Or maybe they don't like the fact that you go around bragging about how attractive you are. Or maybe they don't want to ask out a guy who can't spell "cute." Or — and this is just a shot in the dark — maybe, just maybe, they're just not that into you.
If you like a girl, ask her out yourself. No one says you have to wait around for one. By the way, you can't just "go gay." Homosexuality is something you're born with.
2006-10-09 11:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all you cant "go gay" thats not how it works. but as for your question try to find a girl you really like (not just for looks) and go out w/ her that should solve all of your problems but the reason girls dont ask boys is because most of the time we are afraid to or we just feel like being more traditional and letting the boys approach us
2006-10-09 11:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOnestly not to be mean but WHO THE F*** DO U THINK U ARE??!! Girls arent supose to ask u out ur supose 2 do that! Guys make the move and girls wait. Is this what goes on threw guys minds. U need to get a girl u like out of the most aske her out and do what u want. Because wiating aorund isnt gonna do any good 4 u !
2006-10-09 11:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by veropero02 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
oh my gosh! Get over yourself. Have u ever thought that even if you are as cute as you think you are your pure arogrance would be a complete turn off. Forget turning gay i recommend locking yourself in a room with a large mirror so you can share time with the only person you could ever love. YOU!
2006-10-09 11:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by bamba_982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a ignorant asshole to me. Maybe that's why nobody has approached you. If you really want a girlfriend, buy some balls and ask someone out yourself.
2006-10-09 11:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by Poppi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they're just being nice by giving you compliments, maybe they don't think you're that good looking as you claimed in person... Girls get turn off when a guy thinks his good looks can get any girl... you should try being humble..
2006-10-09 11:23:52 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋