Family & Relationships - 16 September 2006

I have a question? This is for the ladies. My girlfriend and I have been living together almost four months. I found out she had sex a few times with a friend of hers after she moved in with me. She is now pregnant, but we don’t know who the babies daddy is, me or the man she was cheating on me with. And no there was no infidelity or abuse on my part to make her do it. Now the guy (and his mother calls to try and get here to leave me and be with her son) calls her on our phone when im not here, to see how she doing and to see if she needs anything. My girlfriend thinks its ok for this guy to call, it means he cares about the baby and if she stopped him from calling he want anything to do with the baby or at best he wont want to cooperate with her when it comes to the baby, if its his…..what do I think, h@ll no. don’t call here. Call him only if the baby ends up being his, I’m feed up……so ladies tell me what you think.

2006-09-16 16:05:55 · 20 answers · asked by jj 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife & I tied the knot 4 yrs ago.I'm 41 & she's 38.We do love each other but unfortunately I was not able to provide & give her the better & finer things in life.While I see many of my friends who holds well paid jobs,bringing their wives for hoildays,celebrating their anniversaries & buying presents for special occasions & bigger house.I only managed to get a stable job after my retrenchment last yr.I felt I was a total failure.After a serious soul searching on myself, I can only conclude that leaving her is the best thing. Perhaps she will find the other half with true & better qualities. The lesson that I have learnt is that NEVER commit yrself to yr other love one if you aren't financially secured.I've had worked hard too but life at tmes are never a bed of roses.
But how can I explain & tell, her about my decision ?

2006-09-16 16:05:38 · 20 answers · asked by chasen54 5 in Marriage & Divorce

how did u feel when u helped them?

2006-09-16 16:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by blablablabla 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

anything

2006-09-16 16:03:33 · 15 answers · asked by mandy m 1 in Singles & Dating

Every time i walk by this guy and hes wit his girlfren...he pays no attention to her, instead he is staring at me...when she is kissing him he is stareing at me....why does he do this?

2006-09-16 16:03:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this may inappropriate but I didn't know where else to ask but I looked at my hand and I dunno if it was blood cuz it didn't look like it but it was reddish brown and it was like a gel sorta I have no idea wtf it is and am just wondering if anyone knows what it is or if its bad!? No bad replys plz I'm just asking for some help

2006-09-16 16:03:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had problems with him for a while. I think i have lost his tuust! I have done some pretty bad things to him. He took me back but i don't think he really loves me like at first... Help me plz!

2006-09-16 16:02:51 · 4 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

If a guy likes to be naked in his own house and he loved a woman , and eventually married her, but she was uncomfortable with it, would he at least wear boxer shorts around the house when she was there?
Or would he not marry her at all because of this situation?

2006-09-16 16:02:35 · 9 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a question? This is for the ladies. My girlfriend and I have been living together almost four months. I found out she had sex a few times with a friend of hers after she moved in with me. She is now pregnant, but we don’t know who the babies daddy is, me or the man she was cheating on me with. And no there was no infidelity or abuse on my part to make her do it. Now the guy (and his mother calls to try and get here to leave me and be with her son) calls her on our phone when im not here, to see how she doing and to see if she needs anything. My girlfriend thinks its ok for this guy to call, it means he cares about the baby and if she stopped him from calling he want anything to do with the baby or at best he wont want to cooperate with her when it comes to the baby, if its his…..what do I think, h@ll no. don’t call here. Call him only if the baby ends up being his, I’m feed up……so LADIES TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK.

2006-09-16 16:02:20 · 24 answers · asked by jj 2 in Singles & Dating

EVERYTIME I GO TO BRECKFAST THIS GUY ALWAY ASK ME QUESTIONS DOES HE LIKE ME IS HE GOING TO ASK ME OUT OR SOMETHING

2006-09-16 16:01:30 · 2 answers · asked by puppyjenni 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 16:00:37 · 13 answers · asked by Shorti 1 in Singles & Dating

do not get stroppy with people who are educated hehe
it just shows yer brought up ness.....

2006-09-16 16:00:26 · 10 answers · asked by hazilbabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband left for Iraq 5 months ago for a second time.
The first time he was asking me for sexy pictures. When he came back home he has pictures of a naked female in his laptop computer and did show them to me. He said that a lot of guys had the same copies because she had lost her pin drive and they had found it. This time he is not asking me for pictures and I feel neglected. I told him, "You don't need my pictures because you have those in your laptop." He didn't say anything. I e-mail him about how much I miss him, but he never replies to me. All he says is, "Ok, I am done for today. I am going to have dinner now. I see you tomorrow." I have been reading the same message for about 160 days. A few days before his departure I said, "I am not jealous because those females that go to Iraq lack hygiene. He just said, "What happens is that once you are over there, even the ugly ones look good." Do you think he is being unfaithful?

2006-09-16 16:00:22 · 13 answers · asked by Calm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

cuz my friend and i were talking to the guy i like on the phone and he doesnt remeber me so my friend told him i was a goth person and he said "EWW!!!" and i started crying! what should i do?should i go up to him and talk to him?please help me!

2006-09-16 16:00:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-16 16:00:05 · 23 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Singles & Dating

and why explain

2006-09-16 15:59:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I would like to come up with a good thankyou note to my organist for my wedding. how do I send a good thankyou note with much gratitude. any advice would be appreciated. thanks

2006-09-16 15:59:15 · 11 answers · asked by victoria M 2 in Weddings

2006-09-16 15:59:14 · 15 answers · asked by raquel r 2 in Friends

I been going out with him on and of for already a year.! and today he tould me that becaues yesterday was the first time i met him of last year and i was so happy i wanted to spend time with him but i really didnt pay much attention today he got mad at me becaues i wasnt there for him! What! and i tould him that i was sad becaues he didnt hang out with me and it was a speacil day and he said "Cristina its not so freakin speacil "so i got like wow and started thinkng um o wait he tells me i love you do u think he means it um ?i dont he makes me cry alot he said he would change and has he no he hasnt...maybe for a week .i dont know what to do !

2006-09-16 15:58:48 · 3 answers · asked by TriNa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 15:57:59 · 31 answers · asked by budman 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He wont speek to me over something retarted...eh let him go or fight for the man?

2006-09-16 15:57:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 15:57:18 · 23 answers · asked by none 1 in Singles & Dating

if you live in your own house and others live with you, and pay no bills yet get mad when your the only one bringing stuff in?how much is enough???

2006-09-16 15:57:10 · 3 answers · asked by jojo91455 1 in Friends

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-5946593973848835726&q=loose+change&hl=en

2006-09-16 15:57:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always make him feel good. but he doesn't ever return the favor. what should i do?

2006-09-16 15:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Alexis 2 in Singles & Dating

i cant get motivated
what should i do
any tsip

2006-09-16 15:56:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she stared at me for sometime and walked out. I feel pretty embarassing to face her. What do I do?

2006-09-16 15:56:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok. There's this guy I like in school, but I don't know his name, I don't know his grade, I see him in school, I don't talk to him or nothin' but I like him.What should I do?! I can't tell no one and I like him, but for everyone that's heard of Pita-ten, then yea, he looks like Kotarou-kun, but taller, but he's so cuuuuuteee!!!!!! But I don't even know his name, grade or anything whatsoever?! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-16 15:55:35 · 4 answers · asked by sweetsakura 1 in Singles & Dating

and how do you do it?

2006-09-16 15:54:00 · 9 answers · asked by Miss_hoodie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 15:53:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating