cuz my friend and i were talking to the guy i like on the phone and he doesnt remeber me so my friend told him i was a goth person and he said "EWW!!!" and i started crying! what should i do?should i go up to him and talk to him?please help me!
2006-09-16 16:00:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi! go and talk to him tell him the truth that you like him and all the thing that your friend toll him that wasn't truth just tell him that that wasn't the truth.
2006-09-16 16:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by sunday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that a lot of guys find goth pretty unattractive. You have some choices here. Accept that the Goth thing is working against you and not for you and change the way you present yourself to the world, or accept that a lot of people will find the Goth thing unattractive and make some pretty harsh assumptions about you because of it. Remember, you can't please everyone, but you can certainly make new decisions about how you want to present yourself and the kind of person you want to be.
2006-09-16 23:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, that's the reaction of many people toward goths. It's so 90's on top of being stupid looking. Throw out those ugly clothes and buy some stylish stuff. I'll bet you'll look really cute and this guy will be very interested.
2006-09-16 23:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all what kind of friend would describe you as "JUST SOME GOTH PERSON?" She should of told everything about you like your persionality, your interest and how awesome you are. I would go up to him and say that there is more to me than being gothic. If he still says eww then screw him he's obviously narrow-minded. And narrow-minded people are self conceided and immature.
2006-09-16 23:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by roxy_gal6920 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats the only reason he doesn't like you then you don't want nuthin to do with him anyway right? How can he be so judgmental of you when he doesn't even know you thats just rude. Tell your friend to stop helping you in the guy dept. You sound like a very nice girl so don't be sad.
2006-09-16 23:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy sounds like a real jerk.Somebody who really cares about you and likes you for who are (inside and out) isn't going to judge you by appearances.Anyone who does,isn't a friend period.People can be so cruel and insensitive,but that's their loss if they can't apprieciate you and treat you as a friend should.You deserve better!
2006-09-17 01:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that is the reaction you got from the boy you have a crush on. But in all honesty, this boy is not someone you should be dating. Young boys do not want to date girls because of their personalities it's all about looks, but that doesn't mean you should go out and change yourself. You will find someone who will like you for you. Please just remember not to change who you are to please another. And, I don't think talking to the guy will make much of a difference.
2006-09-16 23:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by KG 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think that i's a bad thing to talk ot him. If he doen't like goths then he might just run away. But don't change yourself just for him. MAybe youll end up liking another guy that actually like what you are.
2006-09-16 23:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear you're sad.
You should probably talk to him. I'm sure he once he gets to know you, he won't think that about you anymore. Are you too shy to talk to him? Otherwise, what are you waiting for? The sooner the better.
But don't forget, you're young and guys aren't everything.
2006-09-16 23:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by tau.reanb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think you should talk to him obviously he doesnt like gothic people so why take the chance of being shot down save the heart ache
2006-09-16 23:03:04 · answer #10 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋