2006-09-16 16:00:05 · 23 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are many ways to meat women you should look for a singles party some wear. There are plenty of lonely women that would just love company. Look on line for a singles club in your area they meat at least once a month this way you know they are looking for some attention. Hang in there don't get desperate you may feel worse
2006-09-16 16:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The odds game.
Everybody gets shot down. Maybe your approach or initial appearance need work. Women are incredibly fast to reach the OH! or eww! conclusion. You might make a bad or uninteresting (same thing) first impression.
Remember, if she's hot, she gets hit on several hundred times a day. She can be VERY choosy. She can also smell BS a hundred yards upwind against a high gale.
Find a way to approach her where you will have a little time to work. Make yourself sound a little different than the other men competing for her affections. Make her laugh or be surprised and you're halfway there. You might even bust on HER a little. That will tell her you're not desperate and will differentiate you from the herd of guys swarming her.
2006-09-16 23:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a waste of $$$.
This is an answer from a nice girl, hopefully addressing a nice guy.
Maybe it's how you ask girls out--if you sound too desperate, too serious, etc. it's a turn-off. Just ask someone in a friendly way to do something fun, go for coffee, go to a game, go on a hike, whatever suits your personality. A first date doesn't have to be all romantic where you spend lots of $$. And you should be willing to accept "no, thanks," when you ask you shouldn't seem to care too much whether she says yes or no. But just bc she says no doesn't mean you can't ask again. . .later.
You could also try going out w a group of friends and getting to know someone that way.
2006-09-16 23:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by tiger lou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey honey look don't sell youself short. I am in the same boat you are and only mines been 10 out of 10. You have to find someone who works with u. I still believe there is somone out there for me be strong and don't give up. Don't get a mail order wife a frind of mine did that and hes miserable. If you stop looking itll come to you be open with the people around u and rediscover yourself. Sometimes its best when you know you better than you do now. Just dont give up. I believe in you and im a woman. keep smiling women dont like frowns :)
2006-09-16 23:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered trying a different approach?
If you are approaching women solely to sleep with them (and I say this only because your alternative was to hire a prostitute) then it's really no suprise that you're being turned down.
Here's another thought...Are you approaching women who are out of your league? This could be a problem.
2006-09-16 23:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by cmhenshaw7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it means switch up your rutine or start asking out more girls. If you would like say 2-3 dates a week ask out 20-30 girls a week. More work but hey you'll appreciate it in the end and get better in the process. delay gradification for mental and personal growth, or something like that says my book
2006-09-16 23:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by llcooljerad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you say you have a 9/10 success rate, so ask 10 women and you will get one.
If you pay for sex, you are following a well worn path to broken pockets and broken hearts
be patient dude, not everyone has sex so easily, and your friends are probably boasting, a real girl who really loves you is 100 times as good as one you pay for
2006-09-16 23:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by angle_of_deat_69 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, finding out what you want is not catering to a woman. If they don't like you for you--keep looking! You will be better off in the long run. You're asking for someone to take advantage of you if you pay--never pay for companionship, it's not real and ou get hurt in the end. Don't act desperate..I didn't call you desperate, I said don't ACT it.
2006-09-16 23:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by Doll eyez 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
2 pts
2006-09-16 23:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by pixiechick 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why are they turning you down??
2006-09-16 23:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋