Family & Relationships - 15 September 2006

my man told me this morning that not many ppl have sex on thier wedding night! ( i was shocked). now he has been married 2 times and we are planing are wedding right now we dont have money for a honney moon so i was just going to find a hotel near by so we could be alone( we have 2 kids togther). he said both times he got married he did not have sex but i thought it was more special then. he said most ppl are so tried from getting ready and drunk from the party they pass out. so i just wanted to know how many ppl did not have sex on thier wedding day?

2006-09-15 09:09:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It was this girl who stalked me for 10 years, she wanted a relationship with me. She resorted to sleeping outside my house to following me everywhere, to even staking out my job. Whats your experience.

2006-09-15 09:09:53 · 10 answers · asked by dark rockchick 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend likes this guy 8 years younger than her. The guy is recooperating from a relationship with a crazy, jealous ex. One day she visited him, and he told her how glad he was that she didn't run into the ex. The ex had just left after coming over uninvited and unannounced and he had to force her to leave. I think she should leave this guy alone and keep looking. What do you think?

2006-09-15 09:09:19 · 2 answers · asked by U'Nique 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

2006-09-15 09:07:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my friend but she deosnt seem to care. I always have to make conversation she doesnt. I always have to send e-mails she doesnt. I said i love her but she doenst say that back. I cant keep it casual bcause im afraid that she wont want to be my friend anymore. I might make mistakes and so does she but that shouldent harm the relationship. I think i deserve more. It is so hard to let go.

2006-09-15 09:07:27 · 11 answers · asked by popstar452003 2 in Friends

2006-09-15 09:07:22 · 5 answers · asked by mrskyesha 2 in Singles & Dating

I think it's sexy when they are not trying to be sexy. I love catching them offgaurd...what about you?

2006-09-15 09:06:46 · 14 answers · asked by akiastatz 3 in Singles & Dating

What would be a good place to have a wedding if you live in Florida?

2006-09-15 09:06:40 · 5 answers · asked by luckee137 2 in Weddings

Since I know there are a lot more women here then men, I ask questions about relationships. (ex. Are people who proclaim their relationship are 50/50 actually just the dominate one in it.)
Do people just answer it or do they ever think, "Maybe I am dominating my mate. I'll ask when I get home."

2006-09-15 09:06:40 · 2 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Family

Is bringing a third party into the bedroom a good idea for a couple that loves each other, and is looking for some excitement, or would you call this excitement or legal cheating for my live in lover for 10 years now.

2006-09-15 09:05:54 · 33 answers · asked by tami78731 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this guy in my living enviornment class who keeps looking at me and i keep looking at him... what should i do to make this move along faster if he has feelings like i think he does.... to move on in the some what type of relationship?

2006-09-15 09:05:24 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah A 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 14 months now and we have our ups and downs like nomal relationships do. the problem is when we argue its usually about "jealousy", anything with the opposite sex upsets me, I cannot stand to think of him with another female. i know i shouldn't be thinking that, and he reassures me all the time that he loves me and only me and im not going to loose him. I trust him and he trusts me. When we argue he tells me that i need to work on my jealous issues because thats the problem. When we argue its usually about him glancing at other females and he denies that he doesnt look at them...i personally think that he is/ i really want to stop being so jealous, i think he is going to leave me for another beauitful women because she has a nicer body than me, all of this goes through my mine, and i dont want it to effect our relationship, he tells me that he will always be faithful and that he loves me. i just want to be happy. Please give me some advice to help.

2006-09-15 09:05:12 · 10 answers · asked by old 4 in Singles & Dating

My spouse is being very deceifult wih money and child. I need to protect myself against unfair and selfish behavior by my spouse. We are in the middle of divorce.

2006-09-15 09:05:09 · 6 answers · asked by Sylvester L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A year ago, my boyfriend and I of six months got into a huge argument and broke up. I was so distraught and basically depressed that I slept with another guy the next night because I thought I would never have a chance to be with my ex again. I continued to date this other guy for a month after my ex said that he didn't really mean to break up with me in the beginning. Soon after, I came out of my depression and realized that I still loved the first guy, so we started dating again. After a year of dating, he broke up with me because he still couldn't get over me "cheating" on him. I apoligize, but he started dating another girl. He cheated on this girl with me, and then he flipped out and said he doesn't wanna be friends with me anymore. He's blaming me for his infidelity. I still love him, but more so, I really want to be good friends with him. Please tell me what I can do so I don't lose him.

2006-09-15 09:05:04 · 6 answers · asked by Steph 3 in Singles & Dating

plz...can u tell me or suggest me some good sites ( not dating services, myspace, friendster) where teens are looking for penpals from all over the world??? u know, not net friends...just letters and so on...coz i'm bored seeing my post box constantly empty!! plz help!!

2006-09-15 09:04:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For the guys that haven't ever married, if you don't have any family around and they are actually living in another country, if I just want to be happy, I don't know if it is meant for me to find someone or not to share life, but how about if I just let life go without looking for anything, does that sounds like a bad idea?, do you guys think is possible to be single-no-kids, no family for ever and BE happy?, If I happen to be that way, I may be donating money to children without parents and things like that, my concern is if I don't find anyone (person I think I wont be trying to find), do you know someone that has done that and is happy?, or loneliness is just BAD?, anyone also thinks like this or has done this?

2006-09-15 09:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Singles & Dating

i have this huge crush on a guy but i don't know if he feels the same wya. what do u think?we used to be really good friends and talked all the time then a grl found out i liked him and told him everything and he stopped talking to me but then over the summer he started e-mailing, instant messaging, and texting me again like 24/7 so when skool started i thought we would be really good friends again but i was so-so wrong he won't talk to me unless i start the convo. but he still talks to me online all the time he talks to my bff all the time about me though and i always catch him staring at me and when i look over he turns his head fast so when we like go to asemblies and his friends sit by me he sits furthest away except lately he has benn getting closer and closer and he walks past me at lunch except he is so close i could trip him just by moving my foot my friends say hes trying to get my attention but im not sure that's it what do u think?

2006-09-15 09:03:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 09:03:27 · 20 answers · asked by brittany s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't understand how that is possible. I'm not desperate, but I date a lot, and nothing ever really excites me about any particular person.
But when I am dating, I am always subconsciously thinking that I might find 'true love'.
How am I going to find it if I am always expecting it?

2006-09-15 09:02:18 · 27 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Singles & Dating

I like an 8th grader, but I don't know like, how to talk to him. Like start a conversation. I want to get to know him.... what should I do?

2006-09-15 09:02:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sex is great tend to get carried away but do you think it is okay for a dude to come on a girl's face is it really sexy or degrading

2006-09-15 09:02:06 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seen my teeth?

2006-09-15 09:01:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-15 09:01:16 · 23 answers · asked by alex s 3 in Weddings

I want to know if there are honest and virtuous unmarried God Fearing Single beautiful woman left who knows how to Respect a man... Eph 5:21-33 ... someone who knows what the Covenant of Marriage is really about and not just looking for the Glamour of the day...

2006-09-15 09:00:28 · 15 answers · asked by Cub 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have only been away from him for a month and i am already seeing someone else

2006-09-15 09:00:04 · 28 answers · asked by shadys_gurl4202004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She pulled me away to have a conversation, and I have a strong feeling that she likes me. Well, in our conversation she started talking about how many shoes she has. She said, "I will probably spend so much on clothing that I run my husband into debt !" I think she likes me and now I am scared to even like her in return. What the heck was she telling me in the comment? Or am I just being paranoid??? I am pretty sure she really likes me, and I really like her. HELP!!!

2006-09-15 08:59:56 · 20 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 08:59:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i met a guy durring my holidays and were together for about 1 month..it was jst a summer lover..!then he told me that he was in love wth his ex and told me what had happened between them before meeting me..so i told him goodbye..we haven't talked after that..we didn't argue but we jst don't talk..in a few days it's his name day..shall i send him and wish him happy name day or not?and if i do so what will he think about me?that i'm still thinking about him..or?

2006-09-15 08:59:45 · 15 answers · asked by questionnaire aged 15 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 08:58:41 · 4 answers · asked by Banana 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please be creative, something besides strippers.

2006-09-15 08:58:23 · 13 answers · asked by Mimi 2 in Weddings