For the guys that haven't ever married, if you don't have any family around and they are actually living in another country, if I just want to be happy, I don't know if it is meant for me to find someone or not to share life, but how about if I just let life go without looking for anything, does that sounds like a bad idea?, do you guys think is possible to be single-no-kids, no family for ever and BE happy?, If I happen to be that way, I may be donating money to children without parents and things like that, my concern is if I don't find anyone (person I think I wont be trying to find), do you know someone that has done that and is happy?, or loneliness is just BAD?, anyone also thinks like this or has done this?
2006-09-15 09:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is nothing wrong with being single.
i dont believe there is a soulmate out there for everyone. only the ones that truly want to be married
2006-09-15 09:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by TheMaverick.The Artist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are wondering about this you may still want to give yourself a chance at finding someone. The people I know who, for many different reasons, are not married or with someone and are happy are the people who don't care that they are alone. They have friends and many social activities which keep them busy. Having a wife or serious girlfriend may be the most conventional route but is far from the only one.
2006-09-15 16:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a choice that only you can make. There is nothing wrong not getting married or not having children's, but everybody needs company. Right now, look around you and see the people that surround you, when you get older to the point that you can not do the things by yourself, which of them are going to be there? Company is important, doesn't matter which way or when. Just think that the possibility of dying alone or with people that you don't know (nurses, doctors) it can be kind of sad.
2006-09-15 16:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by success532 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am single, no kids and happy. I had a really bad breakup a year ago and have just decided to just live my life and try not to focus too much on "finding the one".
I am soooo much happier than most of my married friends with kids. I think a person can be happy in any circumstance if they really want to be. Good luck!!
2006-09-15 16:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I almost fit your description. I am divorced with no kids and I've lived alone for a long time.
I love it. I'd not date a woman ever again unless (maybe) if she planted herself in front of me and said, "give me a chance."
I pursue my interests which include many things - one of them being writing. However, you sound lonely. And that doesn't work. You have to go find someone. Discover what you like -- a hobby or interest -- and follow that. Pour your time into that and know that a person will similar interests will come along!
Good luck.
2006-09-15 16:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ... I'm alone now also. There is lots and lots of positive reinforcement in a relationship. Its alot like a cold night, and having two warm bodies in a bed rather than one. Its not a sexual thing ... just the company is helpful.
So, I would say don't close the door.
If you do go the single route, realize that there are lots of statistics that say single men over 50 have TONS of health problems. So you need to stay fit, watch your cardiovascular system, and make sure you have something to keep your mind active to fight off Alzheimers.
Doesn't the idea of dying alone scare you?
Good luck.
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2006-09-15 16:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am single, and I am never having kids...I am happy!
It's just that society tells us that we "need" to be married and have kids, when nothing is further from the truth.
As long as you are happy, don't change a thing!
2006-09-15 16:07:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Contenment is up to YOU! I was married 19 years, no kids (Luckily) and have already lost parents, and few weeks ago one of my older sisters...
I just want to survive, work, and figure out what my mission of life is... Went out with women that just used me so I expect no relationship... If in the future things change, must of been ment to be...
2006-09-15 16:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by ***BEEN THERE, DONE THAT!!!*** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could be happy even if your single. you could go out with friends. or adapt a child, if you want someone to share your life with. just dont think of loneliness. you could get bored. just go anywhere, spend your money on everything you could think of. get a date. who knows, you might be able to meet the woman of your dreams. she could change your life. just think of this, whose gonna take care of you when you get old. to whom are you gonna leave your properties and everything.
2006-09-15 16:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by ○believe○me○ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be happy without finding "the one" because you enjoy your own company and your friends..if You make YOU happy than that is good enough.. =P
2006-09-15 16:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sexxssay? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋