i met a guy durring my holidays and were together for about 1 month..it was jst a summer lover..!then he told me that he was in love wth his ex and told me what had happened between them before meeting me..so i told him goodbye..we haven't talked after that..we didn't argue but we jst don't talk..in a few days it's his name day..shall i send him and wish him happy name day or not?and if i do so what will he think about me?that i'm still thinking about him..or?
2006-09-15 08:59:45 · 15 answers · asked by questionnaire aged 15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're greek and we have name days..it is when the saint from who u got the name celebrates lets say..!!got it??!
2006-09-15 18:54:34 · update #1
LOL I wanna know why I don't have a name day either!! What is a name day??? NO I wouldn't wish him happy name day. If you do, he will think you still want him!
2006-09-15 18:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by cherry_kissez376 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Summer flings are just that, but in this case I think this boy could have been more honest with you about how he felt about his ex.
You are young and I doubt you will take this advice, but I suggust you move on. Don't send him a card or wish him a happy "dia de su santo" or name day or anything. If you have not spoken keep it that way. Don't waste your time thinking about him either. It's hard now because you are living this, but when you look back this boy will be very insignificant, I promise.
2006-09-16 01:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by ldylili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you do so, he will probably think that your feelings are getting rekindled. If you haven't talked till now. Do not surprise him by sending him a greeting or name day thing (whatever it is). Best to get along with your life and not touch the past again. cheers :)
2006-09-16 01:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by shakkill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother? Forget this guy, move on....Let his girlfriend send him cards and do all that stuff, you shouldn't be doing any of that.....If you love him, it's going to be tough, but move on, that guy isn't worth it!! Good Luck
2006-09-16 02:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on what your intentions are. Are you hoping to get this guy back? Are you thinking you will be friends? Think about what you want before you act
2006-09-16 01:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by JHelper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Name day? Why don't I have a name day?
2006-09-15 16:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i don't know what a name day is but u should unless his gfriend minds trust me u don't wanna get in that sorta situation.
2006-09-16 01:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's name day??
2006-09-16 01:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys don't hate each other, than go ahead and send it. you guys can still be friends and have no connections.
2006-09-16 01:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yup since it ended in good terms theres no harm is doing it
2006-09-15 16:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by confused_mexican 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋