I moved to a new area last year for school, and met a bunch of people right off the bat. Not knowing anyone, i embraced their friendship. But as the year passed, I found that i was always going to them trying to do stuff, I'd be calling them, not them to me. Conversation always seemed so forced, and they found more and more excuses not to hang out. A summer passed, now, and we're all back. I took that time to think about that past year, and I'm pretty pissed about it. I reasoned that if they didn't want to take the trouble to call, or anything, they probably weren't that great of friends to begin with, and i have broken off contact save for saying hi when passing. Now I don't make plans, i don't call, i don't really want to go through another year of false friendship, but I'm miserable and isolated. I still can't go drinking, thus the bar scene is cut off, and am really finding it difficult to meet people through lecture classes. Should I keep moving on this way, or go back to them?
2006-09-04
19:14:57
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Bob Saget
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