Well I like this girl from school and she started talking to me online almost every single day but I just can't seem to be able to talk to her in real life we're both like super shy I mean I can talk to her friends but with girls I like I just can't for some reason and all I want to know is if she likes me or not her friends tell me she does but I know that they lie and gossip alot and it's just killing me to not know if she likes me or not if she did then it's worth talking to her in real life but if she doesn't it's not worth it one of her friends who doesn't lie to me tells me she always talks about how nice I am and how different I am from the other guys so what do oyu people think?
2006-09-04 19:21:29 · 20 answers · asked by Spetsnaz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just think fcuk it mate,meet her in real life and dont be shy,be outgoing and have a sense of humor and dont make her feel shy,i liked a girl all the way through skool.never said a thing even though we both liked each other now look at her shes getting married for god sake and having a kid.
2006-09-04 19:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by stoke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get in touch with her (by email,txt,chat room) or how ur talkin online at the mo to her, and say ur guna meet up with some other people she nos and wud she lik to come along/is she free to join yous (name a time & place). Because other people will be there it won't freak her for that second u ask her. If she likes u she'll go or tell u a time/day she can catch up wit u & this other person. If she acts all strange and avoids u totally after u ask her this then at least u'll no and u won't keep wondering. Either way u can hook up and see where it goes or move on. Just go for it - at least u won't keep wondering.
2006-09-05 02:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. Emails are definatly like a courage booster. Ask her in an email or call her. If she is taking the time to talk to you every day, then her friends are probably telling the truth, and she probably already knows that you like her because I can almost guarntee that her friends have told her that you have been asking about her. If she didn't like you she would have stopped emailing by now. Be confident in yourself. What's the worst that could happen? She says she's not interested? There are millions of girls out there
2006-09-05 02:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Angela A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow maybe she's nervous about you since you use extremely long sentences!
Just get over the shyness factor... I know it is hard to be unshy around someone you can share so much with online but you just have to learn how to be around someone. It's hard at first but eventually you get used to it!
Sounds like she likes you to me, I'd just tell her how you feel about her in a casual way... Tell her you think she's beautiful, that she has nice hair, or some other compliment. The worst she can say is "no" and if she does say that, you can feel totally free to move on!
2006-09-05 02:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Linzy Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you are going to know for sure if she likes you or not is to ask this girl yourself. obviously you cant trust her friends to tell you the truth, so how else are you suppose to know? just talk with her....i know its easier said then done but try it. girls dont like it when guys beat around the bush and if shes like the rest of us females, she'll like you even more by just confronting her yourself instead of asking her friends all the time. if she actually does like you then great! if not, then move on....plenty of other fish in the sea, right? good luck!
2006-09-05 02:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by woodstock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try and talk to her outside of school. Or site by yourselves at lunch and talk about what the day has been like. This was, once you strike up a conversation, and you feel comfortable around each other, you can ask her wether or not she likes you.
2006-09-05 02:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely she likes you, but the only sure way to know is to ask her yourself. Try asking her online since thats how ya'll talk. You wont have to worry about running and hiding somewhere if she says no, because you'll be in the comfort of your own home where she wont be.
2006-09-05 02:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by •°¤Lauren¤°• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talk to her all the time online then maybe you should ask her out to the movies or something. If she says yes then chances are she really does like you, its a lot easier to ask thing online plus you'd be hearing it straight from her rather then her friends.
2006-09-05 02:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, be honest, but for the love of god, DON'T ask her out via email!!!! In person, it must be in person. I have no idea if she likes you or not, i've had the same situation and it has gone both ways. you can always beat around the bush, but that will only work for so long. Oh, take your time on it, but don't wait to long, because she might not.
2006-09-05 02:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by Bob Saget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it dude.
love is a gift. if you recieve it ,try and appreciate it,
if not then dont worry. somebody else is still wrapping it for you.
if you know that she talks all those nice things about you then what is this delay. just ask her out . your suspense will be over in an instant. its worth losing a girlfriend and having a friend then losing a friend and having a girlfriend. i hope you get my point.
2006-09-05 02:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by hdil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋