how did it change your relationship? for the better? ..or
2006-09-04 19:21:46 · 12 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
NEVER! How can you get satisfaction if you are not really yourself. You and I are shinning stars and if a man can not see the wonder of that then it is time to move on.
2006-09-05 19:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Cali Girl 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO.I haven't. What would be the point. They will eventually see the real you anyway, so why start off in a lie. The point in a relationship is to be with someone who undersands you and who will love you no matter what. Someone you can talk to and listen to, and share things with. Someone who you feel comfortable being yourself around. Anything else is just a manipulation. And I don't know ANY guys who appreciate that. If anyone is not comfortable being themselves around their partner, they are in the wrong relationship or need to develope a better self asteem. lol
2006-09-05 02:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One changes oneself to be a better person.
We learn and grow throughout our lifetimes.
In relationships, we learn from one another.
In this way, both are changed along the way.
But, not because they intended it for a selfish reason such as gaining approval.
They changed through love.
2006-09-05 09:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bender 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should be yourself just like the saying " Don't Love Me what you want me to be but Love Me as I am ". A true love means there is no pretending act.
2006-09-05 02:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rod 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think i did , no intention to change who i m , but naturally , without notice , when you been together for really long time , both will change and accept each other easier .On the other hand, change something that we don't want to , will feel sick ....
2006-09-05 02:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by fruit of joy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on what you change, big things? no, but small things that amke her unhappy or sad, yes and by small i mean like if you would normally make fun of somehting she likes, joking around and she doesnt like it, then stop doing it...... there are sacrafices to be made, just shouldnt be very big ones
2006-09-05 02:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by penguin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive been with my girl for 10 months and i changed for her. when we started dating she didnt like how i never went to get my ged and did drugs and didnt have any intention of doing sumthing with my life. i wanted her so i wemt amd got my ged stopped doing drugs and im going to school starting in october to get my hvac license
2006-09-05 02:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by gagnon86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I changed once unfortunately..Now we broke up because I couldn't do it anymore..I wasn't myself and this is bad..You should never do it.. =p
2006-09-05 02:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by Elli 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should NEVER change yourself just to make someone else happy.
NEVER works.
2006-09-05 02:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did once but I couldn't keep it up for the rest of my life.
2006-09-05 02:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋