Husband cheated 3 yrs ago when my children were 1 and 3. After 2 counseling sessions, I put on this front like I was happy. I couldn't bear the pain of my family falling apart. 3 yrs later I have more confidence and now am feeling resentful, angry, and feel so distant. I always have been the most devoted wife, make 2x his salary,(he quit college) and I can't get over how he could have cheated! I am attractive, thin and communicate well. He knows he was wrong,..and has changed..(but he is like pathetic puppet) I am confident and he is NOT. He cries all the time when I tell him I lost "it" for him. I am willing to co parent,..he is a very good father,..especially in the last 3 yrs. I am not attracted to him and have lost all respect for him. I know we married way too young. Sadly, we have two children. How do I leave him? I dont want to cheat,...just want OUT! Am I being selfish? How do I convince him to seperate?
2006-09-02
16:49:39
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MrsJR
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Marriage & Divorce