I'm 20. I got fired from my job and I really miss my female co-worker at my now ex-workplace. I can't go and meet her right away. I'm so depressed, lonely, and sad. I'm being eaten up from the inside. So should I drink now or what?
2006-09-02 16:45:08 · 22 answers · asked by nycdude_usa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, that sucks. The pain is awful I know but don't pick up a bottle. Your life will end up even worse. Trust me. Nobody wants to be around an alcoholic.
Find a support group or something positive to take your mind off things until you can be with her again. Think how sad she'd be if she knew what you were planning on doing.
2006-09-02 16:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by James II 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are 20. You will live. Drowning your sorrows in a bottle ain't gonna make your problems disappear. Remember that they fired you - more than likely they did you a favor. Don't be gettin' all attached to no chicks that don't have the decency to call you to see how you are doing. If they were such great pals, why do you feel so bad. You need a support system but not a bottle and not the people you worked with. No matter where you go and how well you hit it off with people at work, they will ALWAYS be the people you work with. And don't get it twisted, you may have made some friends, but these folks on these jobs who are trying to make sure they get a raise next quater will befriend you to learn what you on and what you're about then run back to the boss behind your back and tell ALL your business. Work is cut-throat Baby. Be careful. Leave them folks where you found them. If you need someone to talk to email me. I will holla at you and all it will cost is a laugh.
2006-09-02 23:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by prettylady_61104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one of the worst things you could do. Drinking won't solve a thing it will only lead to more problems, especially in the situation you're in. You need to focus and find yourself a new job and try to contact your co-worker if you can. Any time you feel like not doing a damn thing and just wallow in your loneliness, don't. Get up and go out for a walk or do something to lift your spirit. The lower you allow yourself to sink, the harder it'll be to come back up and you don't want to miss any opportunities to improve your life. Good luck with everything and take good care of yourself.
2006-09-02 23:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ricardo P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not . Drinking has never solved any problem, and drinking when you are already depressed is just plain crazy. You need some one to talk to . Then pick yourself up and get back out there and find another job ! You are too young to give up , or drown you sorrows . Start maturing and you can become a happy productive guy .
2006-09-02 23:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're in NYC then you can find another job quick, so that's not a problem. As far as this chic CALL HER!!! then ya'll can drink together, and make sure you have protection. You don't want to wake up and be burnin.
2006-09-02 23:49:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be better for you to be with friends or family. or anyone you want to hang out with or be with. don't drink alone when you are depressed like that, it will only cause more problems. do it with at least one other person
2006-09-02 23:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by misomeow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol is a depressant. most people forget that. Don't do it. Try to emerse yourself in something you are passionate about to get you through your tough time.
2006-09-02 23:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drowning your sorrows is no way to deal with her absence, maybe you should have some quiet time and do something you enjoy on your own, you will see her obviously again, and do you want her to see you in a drunken mess? how attractive! :P
2006-09-02 23:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, but it'll only make you feel worse.......When we drink we change the chemical balance in us which is usually intellect over emotion to emotion over intellect......Take care, dearheart......There will be other jobs and you will be great at them.........
2006-09-02 23:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure. the alcohol will slow down the e.bola virus eating away your insides.
2006-09-02 23:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋