Do you think its okay to hug a guy in front of your boyfriend, if you growed up with the guy, and it has no meaning what so ever, let me know what you think. Thanks for what ever you think! I hug this guy in front of him and he is mad about it.
2006-09-02 16:47:14 · 15 answers · asked by rosepink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is this guy I have been friends with since highschool, at one point I even had a crush on him, until I met my boyfriend. I have hugged this guy many times in front of my boyfriend and he doesn't mind. This is because he knows that I only have eyes for him now. I think my boyfriend is secure in the fact that I am with him, and a hug is just a hug. I will say this however, the way you hug can be a factor, if it is a long, clinging kind of flirty hug... I could see why your boyfriend could be mad. But either way this sounds like a case of jealousy, or a trust issue in your relationship.
2006-09-02 16:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the hug. If it is a quick hug, ok. You can put your self in his place and see how you would feel if he hugged a girl the way you did. How would it effect you?.. good rule of thumb, don't you think?
2006-09-03 03:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by G♥♥G♥♥ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds familiar i also hug my guy friends and my husband gets a little jealous but he lets it go because he knows there just friends and he trusts me.
2006-09-03 00:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you hug a guy friend, what's the big deal? I mean, if your boyfriend really loved you, he would trust you.
2006-09-02 23:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by xxxshiningxstarxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy i do it wenever i say bi 2 a guy friend in front of my bf and im 13 so y nott?
2006-09-02 23:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the problem. its a form of greeting friends
2006-09-02 23:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bob Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes your friend. hugs arent always sexual. i hug my guy friends all the time
2006-09-02 23:49:49 · answer #7 · answered by rachey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not that your bf doesn't trust you. i think he doesn't trust the friend. to your bf, that guy may be a threat, a stranger touching you inappropriately. i'd be mad.
2006-09-03 00:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... he is your friend and your boy should not be so insecure if he has a problem with it
2006-09-02 23:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Wolf_Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, WHY WOULD YOUR BOY FRIEND GET MAD,IF YOU JUST TELL HIM HE IS JUST A CHILDHOOD FRIEND THAT YOU GREW UP WITH THIS SHOULDN'T BE A PROBLEM
2006-09-02 23:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by applepiekiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋