Trust
2006-09-02 16:54:55 · 17 answers · asked by KORD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you think that it's a crazy idea not to want them to drink? expecially if they told you not to believe what a friend tells you about what happened? I think that's pretty odd not remembering anything, but to be sure not for me to believe anything what a friend might say. should i be concerned?
2006-09-02 17:06:00 · update #1
Trust isnt the question, respect is.
2006-09-02 16:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by crane2watch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that can go either way. If you really like this person, you may want to believe them without knowing what they have actually done. Now there have been several times that I have gotten very drunk, but I could still remember some stuff. The only times I couldn't remember was when I took some pills with drinking.
2006-09-02 23:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Aenimal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure. A violation of trust is a conscious decision. Impairment such as alchol inhibits ability to make good decisions, impairment to the point where you cant remember anything is an extreme impairment and shouldn't affect long term trust. The violation of trust in this instance is that they showed judgement so poor that they used an outside agent to bring about the erroneous situtation that led to the memory loss and possible infidelity. in a nut shell
2006-09-02 23:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person. I do not think it is right, but if they went out to get drunk and were looking then, no. If they were just looking to get drunk, but ended up there, then you really need to talk to the person and see why they were drinking so much in the first place. It is possible to trust again, but it takes time. hth
2006-09-02 23:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by lori.sims 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting drunk in and of itself would be a violation of trust if it's used as an excuse. You can't trust a drunk not to drink again, now can you?
2006-09-03 00:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Haven't you been drunk before ? I have. There were parts of the night I couldn't remember, conversations I had that I dont remember, but not the whole night. And if they woke up naked is what your saying, I definitely wouldn't believe it. But that's just me.
2006-09-02 23:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone gets so drunk they don't remember anything the next day, I wouldn't rely on them for anything important until they cut down on drinking
2006-09-02 23:57:50 · answer #7 · answered by mollyneville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend if they were a trustworthy person or not. I mean everyone makes mistakes, but if this is a common thing that happened to that person then no I probably wouldn't.
2006-09-02 23:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not even though they are lieing, even if they were telling the truth when somebody gets drunk there real personality usualy comes out.
2006-09-02 23:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by jimmyjim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no - how do you know it wont happen again? and how do you know what else that person might do when they're drunk? if that person is seriously sorry, they will stop drinking bcuz obviously they cant control themselves when they do-
2006-09-02 23:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋