Seriously, why? if something is wrong with the relationship why not talk about it and try to work it out? and if you can't work it out just leave!! So why do they cheat?
2006-09-02 16:48:51 · 40 answers · asked by Vernice R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dunno.... why don't you contact my exwife and ask her why SHE cheated on ME!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Wait a minute. If MEN cheat, and my EXWIFE cheated on me, that can only mean one thing... my exwife was actually a... a... MAN (dum dum dummmmm). AAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHH..... it just gets worse!!!!!!
2006-09-02 16:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by capt.jeepman 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that men cheat when they feel like there is something lacking in their relationship, and the reason isn't always about sex. Some men, as do women, have a hard time telling their partners that there is a problem. I think that some men cheat because they don't think about the outcome. What is will not only do to you, but depending on the relationship, what it would do to the kids, your family, and your friends. Cheating hurts more then the person that your cheating on. Another reason I think some men cheat is because there are so many women out there that don't respect other women. It is not a game and it is not cool to go after another women's man!
2006-09-02 16:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They cheat for a number of reasons. Maybe they have found/seen someone else more alluring they'd rather be with. They are tempted easily (its instinct), though there are some men who do not act on this temptation. They don't say anything because, in their weird logic, they don't want to hurt your feelings - as that twisted saying goes, "what they don't know won't hurt them", but it hurts a relationship they might be in already.
Maybe they're not getting much action or they're bored with their partner. Most of the time they don't want to confront their partner and it just gets worse from there. If there's no/poor communication, things are definitely not good. Men prefer to avoid drama and confrontation so they don't say anything.
Mostly, men cheat, because they can be morally and emotionally bankrupt at times.
2006-09-02 17:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Satinette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they be live that you are too difficult to talk to, if you feel the relationship isn't working then you need to get another one, in this case why not see if you can find someone you like, if your getting sex off both girls all the better, why would you just leave a relationship with out having some booty lined up?
alternately why not if your current girl has you on very Little sex, say only 5 or 6 times a week, you can get the sex your being denied else where.
alternatively, you may just not be very exciting in bed, better than nothing but he needs something interesting.
2006-09-02 16:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your girlfriends the same question.
I've only cheated once in my life, and was racked with guilt.
Never again.
But don't make It sound as though men do all the cheating.
You're wrong in that regard.
I've been cheated on more than once.
It goes both ways my dear.
Sucks.. but It's true.
2006-09-02 18:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's been proven that men cheat out of the need for sex without strings... Women cheat because they need the emotional connection...
Having been the victim of this issue, I often wonder if the cheating is really worth it... And how does one ever learn to trust again, after the trust has been taken away...
2006-09-02 16:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by StormCat 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ill tell you why some men cheat alot of men like the thrill of the hunt. its hard for me to settle down becuz i know i can go out and get a woman everywhere ican go they rele like you but they still want play the field
2006-09-02 16:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when they do, it's with some married woman who's out screwing around on her man. By the way, why do women cheat?
Your self righteous song is way out of tune.
Darryl S.
2006-09-02 16:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
men cheat for a variety of reasons..:
for fun, for the thrill of the new, for variety. If fighting.. for revenge, for self esteem. And some men are just dogs.. wanting to hump anything in sight.
probably similar to the reasons why women cheat.
hell girl.. let's all just make love.. not war.
2006-09-02 16:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women cheat too. But the men that cheat, it's probably because it makes them feel like they're "Da Man" and a "Playa".
There are plenty of faithful men and women out there though so it's not a lost cause. :-)
2006-09-02 16:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by Yay for Summer 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Because women are willing to. Statistics show that women cheat more than men do and always have.
2006-09-02 16:50:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋