Family & Relationships - 30 August 2006

There is this guy that I had a breif fling with before I met my current boyfriend. It was nothing serious and he is really cool people. I would like to still be friends with him as I have no intentions of rekindling anything. I love my bf with all my heart and I plan to marry him someday. I just need some advice. He only wants to be friends also. Any experienced answers would be greatly appreciated.

2006-08-30 09:35:57 · 59 answers · asked by Honey Dip 2 in Singles & Dating

anyone know where there are shelters for woman and her kids to go to. it's for a friend i been seaching online but no luck. please help

2006-08-30 09:35:56 · 3 answers · asked by Melda R 3 in Friends

I would like it to be nice and romantic. He want to be able to dress casual. I need ideas for what to do?

2006-08-30 09:35:31 · 6 answers · asked by jess1ferrel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-30 09:34:55 · 37 answers · asked by less 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok heres how it started. When i was 12 i had a boyfriend name David and a best guy friend named Jesse we where all bestfriends.. Me and David dated on and off till i was 17. My parents moved me away to get me away from David. I kept in touch with Jesse. Got married,divorced within 2 years because i was still in love with David. I came back to my parents home with a son. Got back with David. On and off again for 3 years. Then i starting dating Jesse my friend. We have been togeather for 13 years but i still love David and see him daily. david still tells me we will be together one day. He is married. He married the woman his mom knew he was dating before she died. He says he loves me but is with her because his mother knew he was with her and he has a daughter with her in his mothers b-day. He says that what keeps him with her his mothers approvel. His sister and brother says i am is true love and only love. I feel the same way. Am i waiting for something that will never happen? Help

2006-08-30 09:34:24 · 9 answers · asked by pam b 2 in Friends

I once loved a girl and she loved me but we had so much meddleing from her girlfriends that it caused problems. they just had to know every detail of our lives and arm chair qaurterback it from the phone and they convinced her that I could be pushed around to do things their way and I am to independent to have my life run from the phone so we went our seperate way causeing heart break. Why are so many women this way.

2006-08-30 09:33:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I didn't have sex with my boyfreind for 5 days, and I was going crazy...when we finally did have sex...he was like...wow, I've never seen you this into forplay before. Any other girl feel this energy in her arms and her legs and her whole body when she really wants it but can't have it?

2006-08-30 09:32:28 · 16 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy likes me and hes a friend and i think hes gonna ask me to go to homecoming with him, and i really dont want to, but i still want to be friends. How should i say no when he asks?

2006-08-30 09:32:23 · 16 answers · asked by Liz♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

We have 2 children and mom has plenty of space for us. I can't decide what to do, I plan on going to school while he is gone, If I stay here, a friend will watch the children, if I go there I will have to put them in daycare while I go to school, also If I move there we will get our housing allowance, which will help me save more money. I am sad to leave our house though, and a little anxious about giving up my "own" house.

2006-08-30 09:32:05 · 15 answers · asked by Kelli Rob 1 in Family

Just think, have sex with her & steal her food stamps!!!

2006-08-30 09:30:53 · 29 answers · asked by slikk pikka 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this guy I went to HS with just recently got back in touch with me a few months back. In that time we have gotten to know each other so well. I really like him, I may even be falling for him. We have so much in common. He emails me everyday, just for stupid stuff. (and he's the one to initiate all the contact) He is constantly asking me questions to find out all the little stuff. I just can't tell if he likes me or if he just considers me a good friend. Any one have any insight?

2006-08-30 09:30:27 · 9 answers · asked by Brandi C 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend allways talks to this guy (that moved away) and she allways says she misses him and stuff

2006-08-30 09:29:57 · 11 answers · asked by Steven b 2 in Singles & Dating

and how exactly shall i do it. i'm not scared of him, a taste of his own medicine should be fine. but being a woman i couldn't take him on in a fair fight. any suggestions?

2006-08-30 09:28:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am a single mom of a 13yr old and a yr old is it just mine or is it age my 13 yr old thinks she know it all dont listen dont think she needs to do as asked and dont want to help out we go to church and are involve with the church very much so but seeing the way she talks to me and her younger sister you would never know

2006-08-30 09:28:05 · 5 answers · asked by preciousprincess1969 2 in Family

personally, i think when you enter high school you should be allowed to start dating...what do you think?

2006-08-30 09:26:39 · 56 answers · asked by me 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 09:26:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 1bdrm apartment. My sister decided to move in with me from out of town after she graduated. At first I rarely stayed the night because I would stay at my bf's apt. But now he's been staying with me until my lease is up and we find a 2 bdrm to have an extra room for family/friends. I allow my sister to stay in the room while we are in the living room. She basically claimed the bedroom since she's the oldest. I really don't care. My problem is that when her male friend comes over and they are all up in the room and have their privacy but every night me and my bf are in the living room.
She said that her friend is coming over tonight. I said that they can stay in the living room tonight because I'm not going to let no dude I don't even **** with come up in my home and do whatever while I don't get the same privacy in my own damn place. To myself I'm like, "I pay the damn rent, yall take yall *** in the living room!"

Am I right or wrong?

2006-08-30 09:26:33 · 11 answers · asked by To be or not to be 1 in Family

Mine was this kid named Valentino, and I was like 4,...he was so mean to me, he once told me the devil was chasing me and made me run around the classroom. He used to make fun of me on the play ground, but I think he liked me too. A few yrs later, my mom was talking to his mom at the mall, and I ignored him while he was getting googly-eyed at me. Ah, satisfaction! Back to when I was 4, the next yr I quickly moved on to some supercute kid who was bald lol who I still like to this day....

YOUR TURN!

2006-08-30 09:26:31 · 6 answers · asked by newyorkrose9 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i worked in a factory with literally hundreds of black women, all from da hood (cleveland) they were so ghetto, every single one of them! they all talked in eubonics (and very loudly at that) never treated anyone with respect, and they always talked about stuff like giving their man sex just so he would pay their bills. are most black women like that?

2006-08-30 09:26:17 · 10 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 09:25:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Maybe for revenge or out of spite

2006-08-30 09:25:05 · 13 answers · asked by Rez 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm better than dirt! Well, most kinds of dirt. I mean, not that fancy store-bought dirt. That stuff's loaded with nutrients. I can't compete with that stuff.

2006-08-30 09:24:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so, over the summer, i went to California for a wedding. I met this awesome guy at the wedding, and we danced and talked all night. We meshed very well together, and both felt very affected by the whole experience. He is a relative on the groom's side, and I am a relative of the bride's side.
Since then, we planned for him to visit me in New York, to attend a different wedding with me. We figured we could find out if there is as much chemistry as we had thought. He's coming here for a week.
We haven't seen eachother for two months since that night, and I recently met someone--the brother of a friend of mine who I am completely head over heels for. We have fallen like little kids for eachother, and there is definitely hope for a long term effort between us...
So, the guy I'm falling for will be away when the wedding guy comes to stay. What do I say to each of them? I'm scared that the guy I'm falling for would be bothered by this other guy being here. but tickets are bought.

2006-08-30 09:24:33 · 20 answers · asked by smarty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

men who are looking for more than just sex you know is there not such a thing as just hanging out going dancing and having fun with out sex anymore........seem like thats all u ever want i mean sex is great and all but there is more to life

2006-08-30 09:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by preciousprincess1969 2 in Friends

If your relative dies, would you have sex with them before their earthly remains are taken care of?

2006-08-30 09:23:46 · 9 answers · asked by slikk pikka 2 in Singles & Dating

Asked a guy to marry them?

2006-08-30 09:23:01 · 15 answers · asked by Kenya 3 in Weddings

me and my girl might break up and if we do i dont no if i could find another girl

2006-08-30 09:22:36 · 7 answers · asked by $MASH 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 25 and my girlfriend is 19. She was a virgin when we met and we took things really really slow. she is no longer a virgin and we have been making love for about 3 months now.... but it is like starting from scratch everytime we are together sexually. Its not that she does not enjoy sex... she loves it but every time there is that initial pain.... I fel kind of bad that she has to have pain before pleasure. she does not complain but i still feel a little bad. ONLY MATURE RESPONCES PLEASE

2006-08-30 09:22:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or would you run for the hills when he/she didn't give it up after the first few dates? Or would you give that person a certain time frame to be intimate with you before you bolted? Or would you respect that person's decision and be faithful to that person and allow the relationship to grow?

2006-08-30 09:21:35 · 30 answers · asked by intentionalmasterpiece 5 in Singles & Dating

alright theres this girl that will hit me in the back all the time or try to play with my hair sometimes and tells me that shes gonna get me to cut it...a week ago her friend called me and said that she liked me and if i wanted to go out with her..but like five mins after that she gets online and tells me that her friend was just kidding and doesnt like me like that...but i get the feeling that she likes me...plz answer this i need some help on this

2006-08-30 09:21:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships