I once loved a girl and she loved me but we had so much meddleing from her girlfriends that it caused problems. they just had to know every detail of our lives and arm chair qaurterback it from the phone and they convinced her that I could be pushed around to do things their way and I am to independent to have my life run from the phone so we went our seperate way causeing heart break. Why are so many women this way.
2006-08-30 09:33:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats just how they r
2006-08-30 09:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't think of that form of woman is degrading to a guy. mostly, she must be extremely an asset to the right guy. some adult men are not decrease out for fixing issues or dealing with funds and must be happy to have a better half who can cope with those issues for him. perhaps he's a musician who can't do guide troublesome paintings because he needs to guard his hands, or perhaps his earnings isn't very customary and her paycheck is the adaptation between in basic terms getting by using and a mushy existence. or perhaps he's a school professor who's intellectually stunning yet comically hopeless with sensible concerns. Or the guy must be a connoisseur cook who ought to sense free to be relieved of the different loved ones jobs. In any relationship that's ideal that the most qualified man or woman ought to take cost, no be counted no matter if that's the guy or the lady.
2016-11-23 14:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand what you are talking about. I was dating a guy who was totally influenced by his mother and sister. No matter what we did they both had to add their two cents. It did not matter if it was about what movie we were to see or where to eat they had an opinion. The sad part is nine times outta ten he went with what they told him to. Unfortunately it was also the end of our relationship. I could not live my life to what they said. Are women catty b*tches that can not mind their own business? Absolutely. But we are not the only people that can be influenced. If anyone talks into your ear enough you will listen. It just takes guts and will power to stand up for it and make your own decisions. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-30 10:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by sweetcaraline_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame the girlfriends; sounds like the girl was going to them for help. If the girl was so wonderful, she wouldn't have been sharing every detail with her friends unless she needed their help and advice. If she was so happy in the relationship, she wouldn't have let her friends "help". Maybe even though she loved you, she needed someone who was a little less independent. Sorry, sounds like the relationship wasn't meant to be.
2006-08-30 09:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by M L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women like to hear about others relationships for a few reasons. some because they are simply nosy. another reason is to compare it to their own relationship. a third is to help out her friend and make sure she is being treated right. usually girls only meddle into a friend's relationship if they don't like the guy. if the girls are cool with the girl's boyfriend, they usually won't try to get into it as much because they know their friend is well off fine with her bf.
2006-08-30 09:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by girlygirl8 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they are jealous, and they do not have a healthy, or happy relationship, they want everyone to be unhappy like they are. I must say not all woman is like that, some of us are strong, and do not need any one. to tell us what to do. So I hope your next lady friend, will be strong, and have a mind of her own.
2006-08-30 09:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are social creatures and love to talk and critique and everything to the nth degree. You just have to rise above it or it will drag you down.
2006-08-30 09:36:43 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men's health has an interesting article on sexual selection
they cited this gossipy activity as how the gossipy woman would make the other rival women appear less threatening in her eyes
2006-08-30 09:40:15 · answer #8 · answered by dewgongoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called gossip and women want to know that they are doing better than enyone else around them.
2006-08-30 09:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz most women thought they have better ideas or they're better than others.. and sometimes they get too critical that's very unncessary if they're not the involve in the relationships.. or sometimes they really have a point..
2006-08-30 09:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by keiCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they do but can you tell men don't do the same thiingMaybe it's because they don't have a life of they're own, or because they're jealous.
2006-08-30 09:40:12 · answer #11 · answered by debra b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋