Family & Relationships - 30 August 2006

im 18 been married for 4 years and its been rough i recently caught my husband kinda cheatin on the internet more than 4 chat lines but when i went to the chat lines there weren no friends, recent emails or anythin they went back to july 14 and he said him and his little cousin were messin around in the computer before all of this i have never had proof that he has cheated on me exept the one time he was callin a girl from out of the country and he said he was lonely that they just talked and that he has never seen her, i am very upset he still lives with his ***** of a mom and i live with mine so we are kinda seperated but he finally got a job to supposebly move us out , i feel like i cant trust him anymore what should i do?

2006-08-30 10:58:50 · 17 answers · asked by eliza 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am the new guy in town and I really like this girl. We have been hanging out at school alot lately. She keeps sending me all of these signals to me and I am somewhat confused because at the same time when I ask her if I'm coming on a little too strong she tells me that she would only like to be friends. I realize that she is still trying to get over her ex-boyfriend but not to sound mean or anything but what can I do to speed up the process without making her feel uncomfortable.

2006-08-30 10:58:26 · 16 answers · asked by dplynch1909 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do women love to show their butts ,ie why does J Lo want to be considered as having the best butt - and now Jessica Biel is following suit?My observation is that women who show their butts in an illustrative manner are actually trying to attract a mate or are not statisfied sexual in their present realtionshiop - hence are looking for a mate!
What are your opinions?

2006-08-30 10:57:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old were you when you had you first kiss?

2006-08-30 10:56:57 · 90 answers · asked by Daisy Duke 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't want a racial war here, just your thoughts. Are white men not considered good enough for black women? I'm white and married white, my sis is white but married black so I'm fine either way.

2006-08-30 10:56:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my girlfriend very deeply. I am always showering her with affection and complementing her. Most of the time she is good when it comes to physical affection but she has a hard time telling me that she loves me or when she is away that she misses me. I am always telling her that I love her sooo much and she tells me that she loves hearing it, but why can't she reciprocate? Her mother is not affectionate and she doesn't want to be like her, but she is. I feel like I am the one constantly chasing after her and that she doesn't appreciate me. She tells me that she loves me but it is hard for her to say it. I know that she cares, and loves me. She always tells me that she has never felt so close to anyone the way she has for me. Am I wrong in wanting affection? What more should I do for her?

2006-08-30 10:56:15 · 9 answers · asked by TheT 2 in Singles & Dating

mmmmmmmmk now i like this guy and i think he likes me back, cuz he's always real flirty. now 1st i wanna know, if u were a guy how would you show that you like me without actually saying it, and second, i would really like to lose my virginity to him. i know he would be love it but how would i tell him? btw i'm 16

2006-08-30 10:55:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl friend and I have been living together for about 8 months, the first 2-3 month were hot and steamy but after that, our sex life kind of died down.. like we only have sex about once a week. Now I know you would say maybe your bad in bed, but I rule! Its like we are an old married couple cuz we have sex that dosent last more than 10mins and not cuz of me cuz she orgasms really fast, some times I dont finish. She only likes it missionary. We have tried other possitions but she only likes missionary. What can you advise?

2006-08-30 10:55:48 · 13 answers · asked by EsYoDaddy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 10:54:54 · 27 answers · asked by A.C. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-30 10:54:27 · 10 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

2006-08-30 10:54:01 · 6 answers · asked by Nani 2 in Singles & Dating

I usual dont sleep when i would hev the test on the following day because i study the whole night.My problem is,my room mate says i wil be confused &go mad.What should i do coz this help me a lot and i pass very well but after some few days i feel tired & suffer from headache.

2006-08-30 10:53:54 · 26 answers · asked by mafezy 1 in Friends

I mean girls and women are constantly saying that men are so ignorant and blind because they can't see a girl likes them. Well I ask what do guys have to see to understand that a girl likes them. So please aswere how do you tell if a girl likes you or are just freandly, or is just trying to use you ???

2006-08-30 10:53:52 · 17 answers · asked by Faust 5 in Singles & Dating

happy to chat with a 13 year old girl

2006-08-30 10:53:50 · 12 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 10:53:30 · 19 answers · asked by Nani 2 in Family

2006-08-30 10:53:00 · 3 answers · asked by Nani 2 in Friends

Have you ever been hypnotize as a result of staring into another person's eyes and what does it mean? Give a good answer and get ten points towards your next level.

2006-08-30 10:52:59 · 5 answers · asked by Contesta 5 in Singles & Dating

I got into a disagreement with a friend who has issues about being honest and straightforward. He always lies. He switched positions on an issue I was disagreeing with him about, but he did it without admitting or acknowleding his earlier position. Like he was always on a certain side and he was fine with whatever I wanted. Such BS. Give me abreak. I'm going to limit our friendship soon and that'll take care of that. I have too much respect for myself to put up with this BS.

2006-08-30 10:52:13 · 3 answers · asked by mistergenderbender 1 in Friends

2006-08-30 10:51:41 · 6 answers · asked by darkangel1111 5 in Singles & Dating

I just had my kids' mom come and do my laundry for $100. It was like 3 mos worth of laundry (basically i used up my entire wardrobe! hahaha) and it took her 5 loads (neatly folded and put away). I think it was worth $100. What would YOU do for $100?

2006-08-30 10:51:31 · 32 answers · asked by jimjones3 4 in Friends

Now, I know this may sound silly. Try to answer this honestly and feel free to throw some humor in. I have been wondering for years about, what would happen if a man stuck his penis up a chick's butt and she was gonna fart or even had to take a little poopie?

2006-08-30 10:50:17 · 11 answers · asked by stud_muffin 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I had a discussion last weekend about our relationship and where we stand together. He said that he is not the kind of guy who will just say that we will be together forever without thinking about everything carefully. He says he prefers to think about things before making such decisions. Also he added he is still building his career so he has enough stress with that. He said that we had some difficult situations together before like arguments and this makes him hesitate to be sure about us. He said that he feels under pressure as I told him I wanted to know where this relationship is going. He said that we need to spend some time apart to see where we stand together. He has pulled away since and I haven't heard from him since Monday. He has gone from being so sweet to me a month ago to being silent and distant? I am feeling a little worried not sure what is going on and what should I do now? I am not even sure when am I going to see him next as he hasn't said so?

2006-08-30 10:50:10 · 12 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many men have dealt with a scorned woman...you knw like the chick from Fatal Attraction or Cameren Diaz on Vanilla Skky??

2006-08-30 10:48:57 · 24 answers · asked by Z. 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 10:48:45 · 10 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Singles & Dating

I have no girlfriend,attend starwars conventions, am computer knowledgeable, and collect comic books.

2006-08-30 10:48:43 · 31 answers · asked by whynotaskadolphdon 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I had a discussion last weekend about our relationship and where we stand together. He said that he is not the kind of guy who will just say that we will be together forever without thinking about everything carefully. He says he prefers to think about things before making such decisions. Also he added he is still building his career so he has enough stress with that. He said that we had some difficult situations together before like arguments and this makes him hesitate to be sure about us. He said that he feels under pressure as I told him I wanted to know where this relationship is going. He said that we need to spend some time apart to see where we stand together. He has pulled away since and I haven't heard from him since Monday. He has gone from being so sweet to me a month ago to being silent and distant? I am feeling a little worried not sure what is going on and what should I do now? I am not even sure when am I going to see him next as he has not said so?

2006-08-30 10:48:30 · 17 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Singles & Dating

You know, for the part of you that does most of your decision making-lol. What is it?

2006-08-30 10:48:19 · 13 answers · asked by laneydoll 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-30 10:47:18 · 18 answers · asked by kovboyy 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean willingly

2006-08-30 10:46:49 · 21 answers · asked by bradley l 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever since me and my boyfriend were faced with our first problem, i tried to talk it out with him, but he refused to discuss the issue and wouldn't respond to anything i said. I know guys have problems opening up but he wouldn't even talk!Ever since this incident about 3 weeks ago, things haven't been the same, as he won't talk to me! All of a sudden he says he is too nervous to talk to me and has a 'mind block' when he tries, yet weve been together 5 months!! He told me that he is 'so in love with me' but he can't get past this. He keeps asking for 'another chance', but still can't talk to me at all, i mean we were so close and now all i get is a 'hi'.!It's bizarre. I just don't feel the same anymore, and it's really upset me. but i can't bring myself to dump him although i know i should.Please help!!

2006-08-30 10:46:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating