My girl friend and I have been living together for about 8 months, the first 2-3 month were hot and steamy but after that, our sex life kind of died down.. like we only have sex about once a week. Now I know you would say maybe your bad in bed, but I rule! Its like we are an old married couple cuz we have sex that dosent last more than 10mins and not cuz of me cuz she orgasms really fast, some times I dont finish. She only likes it missionary. We have tried other possitions but she only likes missionary. What can you advise?
2006-08-30 10:55:48 · 13 answers · asked by EsYoDaddy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought it mite be me and maybe I bug her to much about getting some, but if I stop asking she wants too to and still its dosent last. she actually likes getting on top even more but she dosent do it often cuz she comes faster!, sometimes she dosent want to have sex and I have asked and she gives me BS answers like im tired... she dosent really like 4play she gets pretty wet pretty fast. One thing she isnt happy with her recent weight gain. Befor sex used to last and it was good for both I belive
2006-08-30 11:17:05 · update #1
i have been living with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and its the same way here. i think after the honeymoom phase is over and you get so comfortable with eachother thats what happens,,its not to say the love is lost. i dont know why she likes it only missionary,,maybe because shes not comfortable with herself for some reason or another. or maybe thats the only thing that really feels good to her. why not ask her???
2006-08-30 11:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something has to change, either you do, or she does, or sex will be coming even less times.
Rent some adult videos, or read some porn stories, see if there is something you aren't doing, that you might or could do.
Don't pat yourself on the back, telling us how good you are, if you were really good, you wouldn't be having this problem.
Look at yourself, a lot more critically, I'm sure there is things, you could be doing, but aren't.
I suspect her coming fast, is a way for her, to stop you from doing what you are doing to her.
She isn't enjoying herself, with the sex that you are giving her. If she was, she'd want more of it.
So wake up and smell the coffee, it's you that is the problem. Not her.
2006-08-30 18:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try getting oral first!! you wanna make sure you getting off too!! that's why not alot of people get married cause the sex fades away. be honest the best sex ever is when your with a girl for the very first time cause you haven't been inside her yet and that's all you can think about and when you finally hit it you want a new piece!! so what you want to do is make it feel like the first time every time!!
2006-08-30 18:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its hard if she only likes it missionary. there's too many positions too be only satisified with one. thats how it was for me and my bf. we had non stop sex everyday. then it sort of went down a bit to 2-3 times a wk but now were back at it. theres so many things you can do everywhere. be creative and think NASTY
2006-08-30 18:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by soul.searcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've reached the peak now its going down. Your not sexually compatible so it wont last too much longer unless a) you like being sexually deprived in which in turn one of you will cheat or b) u seek professional help.
2006-08-30 18:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by y2jr16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything is different when couple live together.but the only answer you can get is from your girlfriend!talk to her.by the way,what is wrong with missionary ?!
2006-08-30 18:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by stella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a bit of fluff on the side.
2006-08-30 18:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by cat_the_aussie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that u suggest different positions and hint to her that it satisfies u and pleases in doin it other ways.......she seems really boring in bed....try to fix the situation before u cheat....
2006-08-30 18:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by META-4-RIC 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a trip to a book/porn store
2006-08-30 18:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BOLT BROTHER BOLT
2006-08-30 18:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by kial39 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋