Family & Relationships - 17 August 2006

I lost my virginity to him. Fell in love with this guy after sleeping with him. O.k so we've been together for over a year. I recently decided to sleep with him. Two months after he tells me he's getting married, while we were still together. It's an arranged marriage. He said he has to get married to the girl his parents chose for him . He said that I am a responsibility and he wants to be a free man. I know I should just accept that there's nothing left between us but it's so hard for me. I asked him for another chance but he really doesn't want to. I only asked him b/c last year we broke up and he asked me for another chance and i gave it to him. i guess life isn't fair. I feel like i chose the wrong man to lose my viriginity to. Now I have a broken heart. It's been 3 months now since he gave me the bad news.I still haven't
been able to let go of him. We still talk. I wish there was something i can do to get him back. He's getting married in December and said he doesn't want a g/f.

2006-08-17 12:41:16 · 16 answers · asked by Mizz_Innocent 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why are sum ppl on yahoo answers so bi***y why cant they give grown up answers? is it becoz theres only kids here? the next person give me dumb answer im reporting them .... damn cant they just give simply answers do they have to put they 2 cent comments there?? which makes them look like real a**holes?

2006-08-17 12:40:02 · 18 answers · asked by jenn 3 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend but when i'm with him i get so nervous How can i stop feeling like that?

2006-08-17 12:38:40 · 16 answers · asked by crazy dude 1 in Singles & Dating

leave me alone??? lol... there is this guy at work that keeps bugging me to go to coffee with him... i told him I didnt think it was a good idea and that i didnt date coworkers... now he is getting a new job and is very obviously making it a point that i know he wont be working here anymore... he keeps asking.. I thought he would get the hint that i wasnt interested without having to come out and say... no... i dont want to go to coffee with you, what do i do?

2006-08-17 12:38:06 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Ty ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Please only serious things, I am down n need to feel good ;)

2006-08-17 12:37:55 · 39 answers · asked by LadyRaven 3 in Singles & Dating

im a hard working well educated black woman in my late 30's i have been with my mate for 3yrs now,we live together so we do everything as a married couple,I know it's wrong but i really care for him.he say he loves me i believe him but the things that he does makes me feel he's not ready for commitment and i am.for example he lookes at other women when i am around,and swears up and down he wasn't.it seems like he doesn't appreciate what he has at home.he comes home to a home cooked meal every evening,a clean home,and a beautifful woman every night.i just don't understand what he wants from me,i ask him he gets upset..so im asking someone anyone that knows what im going through to please reply back.

2006-08-17 12:37:46 · 23 answers · asked by rositarivers 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-17 12:36:59 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I like a girl my age who gets quiet evrytime i approach her. She is usually looking at me. Does she like me or is it a coincidence?

2006-08-17 12:36:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-17 12:36:51 · 14 answers · asked by tinker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

And he said he has had 5 sexual relationships with other girls well he said if we did something i'd be his 6th.He says he has used a condom each time,but he isn't sure about the 5th girl he was with because of some reason i dont know yet.But if he was drunk when it happened how could he be sure they used protection?and before i do anything with me, should he get tested for STD's and HIV/AIDs?

2006-08-17 12:36:22 · 8 answers · asked by Miss.Tubby Bear 2 in Singles & Dating

please help ok
so there ;s this guy and he knows i like him and he's cool with it and then he say i'm retarded and that but he was cool with it
y 's he getting mad now???

2006-08-17 12:35:55 · 18 answers · asked by erin♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

i have blonde hair, greenish blue eyes, nice body(i have pictures to prove it) i get attacched to guys very tightly and would do anything for my man foe example i'm not a lesbian but my last boyfriend told me to have sex with another girl so i did. if you think you would ever date me email me at tootsie_roll1721@yahoo.com o and i am 18

2006-08-17 12:35:37 · 15 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you went totally off sex during Pregnancy - or did it improve - did you feel more or less attractive - Guys - did you go off your partner ? Did you see her as a fat blob ? or did you find her more hotter than ever..?

2006-08-17 12:35:37 · 5 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

1) lease them out, with an option to buy
2) let them do whatever they please in a rubber and sanitised room, chances are, they will fall asleep soon
3) dump them on the wife, errrr husband lol (wife was watching, i was under duress lol )
4) Get pregnant again lol hey,, start things over, turn in a new leaf LMAO
5) run away
6) put them as collateral for a loan, DEFAULT!
7) Have them work out in the fields,, Hey, why shouldnt they work off what they owe you lol even if they cant walk yet LOL
8) drink, drink, drink, drink, drink, drink, vomit, change diaper, drink drink.............
9) make them an offer they cant refuse :)
10) sugar? whats sugar?
11) have more kids = tax credit,, ummm i think its worth it,,,, i think.
12) thats it, im cutting it off, and sewing hers shut,, NO MORE KIDS
11) she wanted 5 kids three years ago, when we married, now its "i wish this was a dream"
12) I am a servant of the most high, the most revered one, the all mighty baby,iexistOnlyToserve.

2006-08-17 12:35:27 · 3 answers · asked by Jazz Q 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it hard to stop thinking of someone?i haven't seen a guy i really like over 2 months and he's still on my mind all i can think of is him what do i do?

2006-08-17 12:35:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

today, a friend of my husbands overdosed. my husband does not do drugs and the friend offered him some and he said no, but the friend did the drugs right there in front of my husband. the friend was shot a month ago and is also on morphine. he overdosed and my husband thinks it is all his fault. do you think it is my husbands fault. if my husband would have tried to stop him, it would have been a fight.

2006-08-17 12:35:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went through a divorce. In my divorce I was awarded custody of my older son and got to claim him on my income tax and she got custody of our younger son and claimed him on her income tax. I also paid child support for my younger son. My son and I had a fight as children and parents often do. He went to his mothers because he was upset. I didn't have a problem with it at first. It's his mother. But somehow she had a paper that stated she had custody and they attached my wages for both kids. I was never taken to court or proved as an unfit parent in order to lose custody in any court of law. Is this legal? Are there any lawyers in Ohio that could help? Can I get custody back? How?

2006-08-17 12:34:34 · 12 answers · asked by BJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-17 12:34:28 · 4 answers · asked by navygirlyn2004 1 in Family

2006-08-17 12:33:32 · 15 answers · asked by rebeccacoker30 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A guy tells you he loves you and wants to live together but does nothing to make this happen and tells no body.....his family ...... or daughter who is 11 and lives in NJ And has been here for the summer and is leaving in a few days What is his game We have been dating 10 months

2006-08-17 12:33:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I tell him without hurting his feelings? Are there any suggestions I could give him without being obvious about it?

2006-08-17 12:33:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she also gets real pretty just to go to work.but doesnt go running around after work, sometimes not mush she might go to a work party but thats like once or twice a year.but she also doesnt want much touching from me or us talking.is she cheating at work

2006-08-17 12:33:09 · 14 answers · asked by cecil p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-17 12:32:41 · 26 answers · asked by rebeccacoker30 1 in Singles & Dating

I just saw a question where someone was asking, "Why can't I get a boyfriend in middle school I'm pretty?" And most of the answers said she was too young to have a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I'm in 9th grade...and I was wondering...do you all think I'm too young to date as well? (Most of you told her she should wait until high school.) Technically, I am too young, but I'm talking about maturity level here.

Thanks!

2006-08-17 12:32:08 · 27 answers · asked by kjahnae74 3 in Singles & Dating

SHE BEEN WIT THIS GUY FOR 3 YRS AND HE TREATS HER BAD. SHE MET THIS GUY AND HE SEEMS TO BE REAL NICE. THEY TALK ON THE PHONE CONSTANTLY AND HE MAKES HER VERY HAPPY . SHE WANTS SOME ADVICE WHETHER TO LEAVE HER MAN AND START DEALING WIT THE NEW GUY. SHE SAID SHE IS IN LOVE WIT THE BOTH OF THEM.

2006-08-17 12:31:32 · 15 answers · asked by vigennie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-17 12:30:09 · 13 answers · asked by baddog 4 in Friends

i love to have guy friends but they only think about as sexual objects. what can i do?
any kid intrested on having just a friend ?

2006-08-17 12:29:57 · 23 answers · asked by unike 1 in Friends

2006-08-17 12:29:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

will any one wish me happy birthday?

2006-08-17 12:29:09 · 20 answers · asked by kofi2mccoy 2 in Friends

I was saved in March of this year and have since then remarried my husband and have gone to through many changes for the better. Yet, my family is always sayin that well, if you were really being a christian you would be doing this or that. I've never claimed to be a christian or any specific denomination. I believe that the bible is the true word of God and that I can help myself and those around me for the better by building my relationship with God through the word.

2006-08-17 12:28:16 · 9 answers · asked by spiffymo 4 in Family