How do I tell him without hurting his feelings? Are there any suggestions I could give him without being obvious about it?
2006-08-17 12:33:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be honest because if you are feeling uncomfortable when he does it he needs to know . Tell him and walk him threw how you like it because every woman is different and he needs to get with your flow.
2006-08-21 12:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by marrissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him that your girlfriends or sister etc were discussing the things not to do down there and ask him what he thinks and suggest after having a nice discussion that got you in the mood where one thing leads to another with the positive information freshly planted in his mind he would try some things that you are missing. If that doesn't work try getting some manuals and share with him and explore different things if he any sort of guy would jump at the chance of learning something new to please you. Good luck
2006-08-18 00:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him aa erotic book to read on that type of subject. And don't just give it to him, read it yourself in front of him and then just start asking him questions and show him the pages you are reading or something. Maybe he will learn something. Or you can always be straight up with him and tell him that he doesn't know what he is doing and that he doesn't have to do it anymore.
2006-08-17 20:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by zelmagraves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he is down there tell or guide him on what you want him to do and how to do it. LEt him know what you like and don't like. I am sure if he knew you did not like what he was doing he would want to know how to make it better so you did enjoy. Its like if a woman used too much teeth, I would think every guy out there would make a comment to her about it, before she tore it off. LOL
2006-08-17 19:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by legguy2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a sweet, sexy voice tell him you want to see what it feels like if he is very gentle and light with the goodies. Tell him you want to feel a new sensation. When he gets things going the way you like, moan and groan like crazy. Tell him what a fantastic lover he is. That should give him incentive to remember to take it easy.
2006-08-17 19:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that tonight you will be his teacher. Then tell him to do this and do that (the things that feel good) You can punish him when he does things that you don't like. Make it a game and he will get the drift.
2006-08-17 19:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Handsup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One night at dinner together, tell him you had this dream about him and he was trying all these wild and different things with you "down there". Describe exactly how he was doing it in your dream and dare him to try it with you that evening!
Your "dream" may just come true!
Good luck
2006-08-17 20:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could leave your yahoo answers open...he can read it for himself. LOL - just kidding.
Hmm, I think there is no delicate way. You are better off dropping suddle hints, like saying "oh that feels good" when he does something right but otherwise, just accepting it for what it is.
2006-08-17 22:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by smiley_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to just use the tip of his tongue at first, and to gently go around it watching your responce.licking on the sides of it and the top of it.when you hit that right spot, your body will for sure know..
2006-08-17 19:41:21 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never tell him his sucking sucks! Simply offer encouraging advice on what feels good for you. He'll be grateful for your suggestions. After all, he desperately wants to please you.
2006-08-17 19:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋