Ideal age for...(mature users only...no this isn't nasty, I just need serious answers...)?

Question

I just saw a question where someone was asking, "Why can't I get a boyfriend in middle school I'm pretty?" And most of the answers said she was too young to have a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I'm in 9th grade...and I was wondering...do you all think I'm too young to date as well? (Most of you told her she should wait until high school.) Technically, I am too young, but I'm talking about maturity level here.

Thanks!

I think you should have read my question "shea"

I do hope you all aren't thinking I'm talking about sex...that's a surefire way to ruin your life

Wait you all....I know I'm adding too many details (lol) but I will have graduated from high school by 16!

Answer 1

only you can decide if u are ready to date i mean i think high school is definately a good time to start i mean just casual dating you know and honestly to admitt that u think that technically you are too young shows a lot of maturity right there and that is a good thing so dont let anyone rush you and start dating when u feel that u are ready.

Answer 2

13 is a pretty young age to start dating, I think, however, that it doesn't mean you shouldn't or can't - especially if you're mature enough to cope with a relationship (though it'll be hard to find somebody who shares this optimism at 13-years-old). I'm 17 and my first serious relationship has only started a month ago. It's still hard to keep it going strong (though I manage), and I know for a fact that at 13 I wouldn't of had a chance. I'm not saying you're immature, but quite generally, if you want something good, you're going to have to wait. On the other hand, there's nothing wrong with going on "dates" with people your own age, as long as it's all safe and such. Just don't let anybody force you into doing anything. You are still, by definition, very young.

Answer 3

I think you should wait. You have your entire life to be with someone. Sometimes younger people always want to be with someone b/c they think it's mature or the thing to do and that it is all fun and games. There is a lot more to it than that. There is always drama when you are including someone else in your life, on both parts.

It's not easy a relationship takes work and time. and most of the time you don't have that kind of time when you are young b/c of school or you are not emotionally ready for everything that comes with having a bf.

Answer 4

13 is too young to date. When I was 13 I had a 4.0 grade average, very smart and in honors classes. I was mature for my age mentally and physically, BUT....hormones are all over the place at that age and no matter how smart you are and how grown you act and look...Hormones levels aren't exactly leveled. Hormones can be hard to control at any age, but at 13 even for the smartest kid, they are still a tough contender. 16 I think you've leveled out a bit more and can handle your situations a bit better.

Answer 5

I am a 16 year old girl and I remember quite clearly back in the grade school days when if two people held hands that they were assumed to be going out. A serious relationship is much much more than that and when you are ready for it I think you will know.
I personally think that if you are mature enough to handle it, then it is never too soon to start looking for the one person that you want to spend the rest if your life with.

Good Luck!

Answer 6

u're still too young; book-smarts are one thing, street-smarts are another. unfortunately, the latter must be learned by age and experience and u sound like u don't have enough of the last two. concentrate on ur studies instead, the boys will still be there well into college. i say wait a couple more yrs if u're really set on getting a boy-friend. besides, do u know that sex at ur age is illegal even with someone of the same age? just a thought.

Answer 7

i don't think that u r to young to date but i do think u should wait a lil before doing anything else. u may be mature in all but most high school guys or guys in general are not that mature. so just be careful in what u do and with who ok. but if u want to date then go for it.

Answer 8

I don't think your too young too date. I had a boyfriend when I was 13. I think alot of people worry about teens having sex, which I do not recommend. My sister had her baby 6 days before she turned 16. So go out have fun...just be careful. Best wishes. :)

Answer 9

I see you use spell check! Very good for a 13 year old! Go to the top of the class.
However, at 13, you're still to young to date, no matter how "mature" you think you are. Focus your energy on other things. Good luck

Answer 10

if you were to save this and read it again when your 25yrs old you would ask yourself what the hell where you thinking. sweetie you're too young also think about your life first get through with school there is no rush in finding a boyfriend, just think about having fun with all your friends and getting good grades to be out of school and into the real world!