SHE BEEN WIT THIS GUY FOR 3 YRS AND HE TREATS HER BAD. SHE MET THIS GUY AND HE SEEMS TO BE REAL NICE. THEY TALK ON THE PHONE CONSTANTLY AND HE MAKES HER VERY HAPPY . SHE WANTS SOME ADVICE WHETHER TO LEAVE HER MAN AND START DEALING WIT THE NEW GUY. SHE SAID SHE IS IN LOVE WIT THE BOTH OF THEM.
2006-08-17 12:31:32 · 15 answers · asked by vigennie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No man has a right to mistreat a woman i don't care how he justifies his actions in my opinion even being kicked in the nuts does not give a man the right to mistreat her. if he is mistreating or abusing her physically or mentally in any way she needs to kick is a$$ to the curb that shouldn't even be a question but i guess that goes hand and hand with love being blind. No matter how she feels about herself she needs to know that she is an important person with feelings that matter and if the guy shes with cant see that then he needs to be gone. and yes if the guy she is talking to can give her whats missing the i say go for it but be careful that shes not getting herself right back into what shes leaving behind sometimes even if your not trying for it moving on that fast out of as bad relationship can turn into a rebound situation and because Sher's so used to being treated that way she wont know how to react when shes got a real man who only wants to treat her like the queen she is
hope it helps best of luck
2006-08-17 12:54:24 · answer #1 · answered by lonly_male4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the 1st guy treats her badly she should leave him anyway, for her own good, not just cos she has something to fall back on. .. Maybe after 3 years she should have a bit of fun with the other, but tell her to enjoy being single atleast for a few weeks. 3 years is a long time to be with the same person, then go straight into a new relationship anyway.
2006-08-17 12:38:22 · answer #2 · answered by Laydee T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should leave the first guy quick, fast, and in a hurry. Go for the second guy. Everyone woman wants to be treated nicely. Don't believe any of the false apologies and short-term good behavior. She's been taking it for three years, which in my book, is three years too long. If she doesn't have kids, tell her to get out before she does. It's much harder to leave when there are kids involved.
2006-08-17 12:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the old guy and be friends with the new this will give her time to learn more about him other than conversing over the phone plus she dont need to jump out of one relationship and immediately into another she should try to find herself and get to know what she want enjoy a little freedom.
2006-08-17 12:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the old mean guy. If he treats her badly, then she shouldn't be in love with him. Go out with the nice guy, It'll be better off in the end.
Good Luck
2006-08-17 12:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her bf treats her bad than why is she with him? In most cases it doesn't get better, only worse. She should try things with the new guy, and see what happens
2006-08-17 12:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of course she should leave the old mean guy and go with the new nice guy it would be better for her so no one would be mean to her she'll have a decent guy and live happily ever after!!
2006-08-17 12:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the guy she has been with for 3 years is treating her badly she should go with the new guy for sure!
2006-08-17 12:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by Pepsiegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she need to decide on a decent guy and someone who treats her bad she need mental help.
2006-08-17 12:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the bad 1 and get with the good. No need to live like hell.
2006-08-17 12:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋