Family & Relationships - 13 August 2006

Jeebus, Wasn't expecting such a quick positive response to my last question so here's another. I'm like to think of myself as a 'nice-guy' and I'm single (And I hate it!). As most of my ex's say I'm perfect I've had to question why? And I'm thinking it's my 'picky'ness. Don't get me wrong - I'm just after something more long-term than most. I don't DO 'pulling'. If I want to sleep with someone - I'll wait till at least 3rd date. I also tend to avoid promiscuous women. (I like to think i'm something special.) Problem being - Where to meet the other types of people when the main places I hang out are the gay village (Due to work & friends. I live in Manchester.) or at the local rock clubs. The girls that like me, I don't seem to like and the girls I like seem to be gay. Ho-hum. Am I my own worst enemy?

LukeyM
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2006-08-13 02:56:42 · 25 answers · asked by LukeyM 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean he can't really help it ,nor can I stop it. He also has a disability that requires medication for normal social behavior and he believes the actresses are really coming to him because he is gifted and important. He is a beautiful, and hot guy but I feel he truly loves me only when were awake....Help me get over this before I yell and cry him right out of my life!!!

2006-08-13 02:56:21 · 26 answers · asked by Hotty Ho 1 in Singles & Dating

i am on my holidays to my uncle's place in australia and i met his nephew i.e my cousin and during a party we both were drunk and out of our senses and kissed each other.he apologized but still want to date what i am supposed to do?,he is still my cousin you see

2006-08-13 02:54:56 · 8 answers · asked by cristy_25 2 in Singles & Dating

i see those type of people in our shops all the time

2006-08-13 02:54:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-13 02:53:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and then when the b/f had enough of the constant fighting who the one who wants to keep the relationship going the girfriend women are weird

2006-08-13 02:52:44 · 21 answers · asked by manny d 1 in Singles & Dating

I LOVE HIM AND WANT HIM BACK .. WHEN HE OFFERED TO COME I REJECT BUT NOW I WANT HIM !!!!!!!

2006-08-13 02:51:36 · 19 answers · asked by magic 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

you give them everything to keep them happy and so why do they cheat

2006-08-13 02:51:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if yes which kind of condoms should be used and why?

2006-08-13 02:50:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hi, I noticed how a guy tried to talk about sex in an indirect way when we chatted on line, and this has happened more than once. We've known each other for a bit more than 5 months now. Do you or do you not think he's trying to make a pass at me in a sexual way? Why or why not? Serious answers please, thanks.

2006-08-13 02:48:54 · 5 answers · asked by CRT 3 in Singles & Dating

The guys who, even when it's just talking, who treat you as if you are a notch on their bed-post, just one of the crowd, one of the harem? The ones that talk fast and try to manipulate? The ones who try to excuse it by saying "I am who I am", and you're supposed to accept it? Don't men realize that a girl wants to feel a little special? Even if she knows that he is talking to others, even if she doesn't want it to go farther, she doesn't want many other women shoved in her face? Why do men think this is ok?
Ok, there are a lot of questions there, but I think that they are all related. Have at it, girls!

2006-08-13 02:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by mightymite1957 7 in Singles & Dating

in 7th gr i met this guy. i thought he wuz a player so i dint like him very much but later on we became friends.anyway my best f. that year liked him &she got jelous cuz he told her that he liked me &when i started realizing that he wuz flirting with me all the time i actually believed her &i liked my best friend more than him so i started being all mean to him.not on purpose i couldnt help myself he wuz around me too much.so i would alwayz push him away &nvr give him hugs or anything.then when i left school early for the summer he told my best f. how much he really likes(loves)me& misses me.anyway in 8th grade when i came back we were in diff.classes &i nvr saw him anymore except every once in a while in the halls.then i realized i like him too &i really want him back.but that year he alwayz gave me depressed looks &it made me dep.2. then 8th gr.wuz over &yesterday on 9th gr orientation day i saw him and we looked at each other 4 a min both depp. then i left. does he still like me?

2006-08-13 02:47:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is in 11th class & i am in 10th class he is so sweet he also not attend the school daily what can i do

2006-08-13 02:47:26 · 8 answers · asked by ashika 1 in Friends

2006-08-13 02:46:52 · 9 answers · asked by sunit v 1 in Friends

Are young kids really falling in love? I hear the middle and high school relationship stories, and possibly some elementary ones. I wander on people’s online journals, WebPages and info’s on AOL and young girls from the ages of 11-17 are hopelessly in love with their boyfriends.


I find it funny. Looking upon a 13 year olds AOL info it says Adam 3-4-6 I love you, baby. Does this young girl know that the date she put in is August, and we are still in that month? Does she know it takes several months and possibly years to even remotely come close to loving another human being? And do these young girls know that being boyfriend and girlfriend means that you must hang out with your significant other, not just see them at school?
I don’t blame these young girls, whenever I dated someone I always ‘loved’ them within the minute of ‘dating’ them. But I slowly realized that that’s a bunch of ****, you don’t love someone that quickly. Two week relationships aren’t special, they happen everyday. Don’t think you’re unique because you successfully dated someone longer for a day.

I pity these young girls who think they are in love with their boyfriend of three days. I want to shake them and tell them that they are losers and need to get a life. Possibly be hit by a bus or a train. All girls have unfortunately done this when they were younger; some girls have out grown it and realized the true meaning of love. Some still throw that word around like it’s nothing. Love isn’t something you throw around. It should be something you treasure and give to someone you think deserves it. For every guy you say your in love with that doesn’t save anything for the guy you really will love someday. The ‘I love you’s’ will have exploded out of your mouth so many times it won’t feel different or real when you tell the guy your getting married too or the guy you’ve been dating for seven years you love them.

2006-08-13 02:46:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How is it possible the girl can get pregrant if his sperm doesn't go inside her that thing? Please tell me.

2006-08-13 02:44:49 · 15 answers · asked by pLaYgAl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-13 02:44:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can anyone give me any advise on how is best to see somebody in the naughty without them knowing they live in different house from me though.

2006-08-13 02:44:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-13 02:44:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

. . . . pink is a girls color. . .. .blue for boys etc. . .. but yellow ?

2006-08-13 02:44:10 · 21 answers · asked by reallyreallybigtimeloser 2 in Family

Does anyone have advise on how ican spy on firiends like in their room etc from the safety of my home?

2006-08-13 02:43:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is true love always succeced

2006-08-13 02:40:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she liked him at the start of college but nothin happened so now she's got a bf. Recently me n him have bin heavy flirtin on msn yesterday we went out on a date so the cinema. i dunno whether to tell my mate. Coz i know she likes him too and she mite say to me "u knew i liked him" . i dont wanna lose her as a mate but i do like him. im really confused.

2006-08-13 02:39:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-13 02:38:36 · 10 answers · asked by john_0502000 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-13 02:38:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am I good for somebody?

2006-08-13 02:38:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

will a gal get pregrant if a guy inserts his dat thing inside the gals thing 3 times without spliting sperm inside? pls tell me now!

2006-08-13 02:38:04 · 10 answers · asked by pLaYgAl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We love each other very much, His brother is a jerk!! He always has rude comments to make and has made some to and about me. My boyfriend doesn't say anything to him, but claims to love me. What would you do??????? I am not sure but I think my lover is afraid of his brother.

2006-08-13 02:37:46 · 10 answers · asked by Cindi R 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and after being married to him for 8 years I still don't understand it. It's not a problem in our marriage except when I want to wear open toed shoe, or flip flops. He doesn't like it when I walk out of the house with "sexy shoes" on (sexy shoes = any type of shoe that reveals my bare feet including plain old flip-flops). He believes that their are a lot of men that are into feet and I should be more aware of who sees my feet. I've never known about foot fetishes until I met my husband and when I found out about it I thought it was very strange. Are there really alot of men out in the world that have foot fetishes? and can someone please elaborate why these men like feet so much? Should I be more self-conscious of the type of shoes that I wear?

btw: he doesn't try to force me not to wear the shoes. He just recently voiced his opinion about it and told me he feels uncomfortable when I wear revealing shoes outside of the house.

2006-08-13 02:36:36 · 22 answers · asked by n2art2002 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Would I be able to shave myself and still look straight? I mean my pubic hair and legs, I know it's weird but I have a WHOLE BUNCH of hair mostley on my legs and my girl says it is to much. I just wanna know if I can shave them and still look straight. Cause Im really hesitant about doing it.

2006-08-13 02:35:53 · 27 answers · asked by blakefabian2003 4 in Singles & Dating