I mean he can't really help it ,nor can I stop it. He also has a disability that requires medication for normal social behavior and he believes the actresses are really coming to him because he is gifted and important. He is a beautiful, and hot guy but I feel he truly loves me only when were awake....Help me get over this before I yell and cry him right out of my life!!!
2006-08-13 02:56:21 · 26 answers · asked by Hotty Ho 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Deams are ways to deal with life situations in the unconscous.
It reminds me of the story about the man who looked at every pretty girl, but always came home to his wife. My present GF saw me being hit oin by a rather attractive woman last week. She was, as I was, amused, and I literally had to bite my tongue to not laugh aloud..
I realize that love is deeper than eiyher a fantasy or orgasm. The woman who hiot on me was a compliment, but I knew that I was not going to risk losing my wonderful GF for a fling with thius woman who approached me and came on like gangbusters..
Som tell youur man not to share his dreams if the topics wilol upset you. SHe is NOT cheating on you.
INcidentally, I have known many men who have indeed cheated on wives and girlfriends. That is a while different story.
2006-08-13 03:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl just let him be. you can stop him from dreaming that way. it's inposible to stop him from dreaming that stuff. But just take a deep breath and count to 20 and just stop thinking about it i will all change in time. if u need to talk more heres my e-mail. BabygirlinPink@yahoo.com. I'll always on so if u still have a problem with him I would love to help u with them. And please leave a message and i'll be glad to help u. i went thought the same problem. But my boyferind did not have a medical disability. But we got thought it and we r still seeing each other and we been dateing for 3 years now. so leave me a e-mail and i'll get back with u right away.
2006-08-13 03:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not crazy at all, im exactly the same when it comes to things like that. dont worry though, if he has a disability i dont think there is anything to worry about as thats probably whats causing it. at the end of the day if its only in his dreams and not when he is awake then its okay. But i know what its like, it puts your self confidence right down, try not to let it.
2006-08-13 03:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by rach_b_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, he can't help what he dreams. Dreams can be interpreted in different ways, who knows why he is having these dreams. It doesn't necessarily mean that he is not happy with you. As long as he is loving and attentive while you are awake, and he is not cheating on you then, I would just try to relax and not let it hurt you too badly.
2006-08-13 03:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to quit giving details of his dreams. Tell him you've had a few of your own with some hot men. Maybe it'll shut him up then. We can't force our brains when sleeping to shut off. I've had some GOOD dreams myself, but I don't tell my boyfriend about them. If I do tell him, I make HIM the star of them. A little white lie doesn't hurt in this instance.
2006-08-13 03:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by kimmy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dream guy must be one which extremely treats me proper and takes the time to call me and be with me. that is not any longer rocket technological awareness....it purely takes a touch appreciate and extremely following with the aid of with what you're saying. one component I hate is at the same time as a guy makes delivers he cant shop and is a selfish son of a b****.
2016-11-30 00:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost every guy in creation has a wet dream about some famous actress,at sometime, its no big deal,be worried though if he calls you Angelina or Kiera while you are having sex!
2006-08-13 02:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes every man and woman for that matter dreams a bout some one sexy, its human nature and most probably some movie or tv has impressed the mind, but if it leads to other behaviour, then he needs to talk this out with you first and then see a professional
2006-08-13 03:04:14 · answer #8 · answered by cluelesskat maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its alright to be upset. Its only human. You cant help feeling a little jealous and angry. Just dont let it get in the way of your relationship. It obviously means alot to you and you love him. So dont fight the anger and jealousy, just rationalize it and kep it in check. Dont let this mess up your relationship.
2006-08-13 03:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here goes....you're being childish about the whole dream thing ok. none of us can control what we dream about. secondly, if your b/f has some issues that he takes meds for, maybe it has a lot to do with what he dreams about. if you're having such a problem with the dream thing, then maybe it's time to move on to someone else.
2006-08-13 03:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by raylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋