Hi, I noticed how a guy tried to talk about sex in an indirect way when we chatted on line, and this has happened more than once. We've known each other for a bit more than 5 months now. Do you or do you not think he's trying to make a pass at me in a sexual way? Why or why not? Serious answers please, thanks.
2006-08-13 02:48:54 · 5 answers · asked by CRT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You didn't say if you have talked on the phone or not, or sent each other photos but, I think he is being a typical male. Regardless of his marital status and age, if a woman is cordial and responds to his indirect sexual talk, he will think that she is a possible prospect for sex. Yes, he is thinking about sex. Also, sometimes when a chat relationship is going on, he might be using the chat to get excited and masturbate. I think this is pretty normal. It's the way guys are made and unless they exhibit control, their minds wander into the sexual realm. If you are OK with it, respond the same way. Do the indirect sexual chat to see how he handles it and let him make the next move. If you want to know more of my experience, contact me. Be Polite. Good Luck
2006-08-13 02:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though I don't know details, it is safe to say yes. I would say him talking about it in an indirect way is his way of feeling you out. He may be trying to see how you feel about it. But to keep this from getting even more confusing, respond to him in a very direct way. If you don't want to have sex with him say so. If you do, say so.
2006-08-13 09:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by firecracker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Many a guy would like to have casual sex with an attractive lass if all conditions are right. Usually they will take "no" for an answer, and they could continue to be useful and sincere friends. It's just the way we humans are made.
However, there must be no wavering about the "no", if that is indeed what you want to convey.
Good luck, you sound nice.
2006-08-13 09:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by RebelBlood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know enough details to make this determination, however I would assume that he is, being the topic has been sex in the indirect way as you described.
2006-08-13 09:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a guy, he wants to have sex with you.
2006-08-13 09:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋