I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We love each other very much, His brother is a jerk!! He always has rude comments to make and has made some to and about me. My boyfriend doesn't say anything to him, but claims to love me. What would you do??????? I am not sure but I think my lover is afraid of his brother.
2006-08-13 02:37:46 · 10 answers · asked by Cindi R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds that way to me. Try talking with his brother on your own, just ask him why he does these things....
2006-08-13 02:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lover loves you and so does his brother. Boys will often be rude and even hateful to someone they see alot of and like. He is doing this to evoke emotion from you. Obviously he can't flirt with you to get emotion from you, so he has to do the only other thing he knows how to do....get you mad. Be polite. Good Luck
2006-08-13 09:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u love each other don't let anybody else come in-between the two of u. Try ignoring the comments even though it is hard to do. When u ignore it he will get tired and give up.
2006-08-13 09:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant help it if ure ''lover'' is afraid of his brother but just dont blame ureself just casually as him if he knows why his brother is saying mean things about u and ask him if he could talk to his brother about it bcuz it bothers u hang in there girl and if his brother doesnt stop just try and ignore him hes not worth ure time nor your efort
2006-08-13 10:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by skflaramee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend's brother is probably dead jealous but mention the comments to your boyfriend and tell him how uncomfortable it makes you feel. Your boyfriend will probably laugh it off as no one likes confronting their own siblings but insist.
2006-08-13 09:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by whyme? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be afraid or feels like hes just joking around. but there might be a lil hint of flirting with that. So maybe your bf just doesnt want to address what he feel due to thought he might cause a problem with you or his brother and wont be able to choose.
2006-08-13 09:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by skeemergyrl9056 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend will never know how you feel about all of this unless you tell him. He is the one that should confront his brother and explain to him how it is bothering you. your boyfriend, i'm sure, cares about you and will do anything to protect you, but he needs to know that you feel this way.
2006-08-13 09:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u sud tell ur bf to talk to his bro. Tell ur bf that his bro is makin these comments and its hurtin you. I hope ive help. :) can u return the favour and answer my question.
2006-08-13 09:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that your guy is affraid. However, you need to tell him exactly how you are feeling about everything. If he really does love you, then he would speak up for you. I know that I would!
2006-08-13 09:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
blood is thicker than water. You cant expect him to chose, thats his brother.
Girls come and go, family is there forever..
2006-08-13 10:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋