2006-08-13 02:53:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Good friends are hard to come by,you don't want to lose them,try to find a way to explain your feelings without causing any offence.You never Know they may feel the same about you.Be very gentle and don't be too offended if they don't feel the same as you.Just friends is a great relationship anyway.Good luck.
2006-08-13 03:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends how it is making you feel. (You could do just for a while if it is hurting you too much.)
Do you think the person might feel the same for you? If so then you could try and find out... maybe ask some leading questions or you could ask other friends if they know.
Why are you suddenly feeling more? Has it been a gradual thing, or just something that came into your head that might change?
Whatever, like other people have said, if it is a good friend then even if it makes things seem a bit weird for a time, there should be friendship on the other side of it if not more.
I know though that it takes a long time to get over such things if the other person does not feel the same way...
The time will have to be right for you to be able to get over it, nothing anyone says can help, but its true that trying to be 'strong' as such and not put yourself into situations when you know you might be hurt... e.g. going out somewhere where you might have to watch that person communicating in a flirtatious way to others for example. This then does not mean that you need to stop seeing the person altogehter... Its easier said than done though.....
2006-08-13 03:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by i dont know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way man that would be just dumb the obviuos thing to do would be to figure out how he feels about u does he like u as a friend,more then a friend...and so on and so forth also try figureing out exactly how u feel about him and try working up the courage to confront him as hard as it sound but itll be worth it if he feels the same way but after tellin him things could be awkward if he only wanted to be ure friend so give him some space also u dont have to confront him u could just stay friends that way u wont have to worry about ruining a friendship if he doesnt feel the same for u as u feel 4 him.but while talking to him and around him look for any sighns that he may like u
2006-08-13 03:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by skflaramee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, if your use to running away from your feelings then yes, if your use to standing your ground on how you feel, then no. Maybe consider if the person you have feelings for share simular feelings, ask a few simple questions, drop a few hints. That way at least you'll know if it's worth pursuing, and it won't affect the current relationship if all fails.
2006-08-13 03:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends...is this friend already in a relationship? How does this friend feel about you? If your friend has no idea how you feel and you walk away, then the friend will probably be hurt because there's no explanation. If you think it's hopeless, you may want to distance yourself but not cut off completely. But you may want to talk to friend because he/she may feel the same way as you.
2006-08-13 02:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by Diff'rent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on wether the friend is available for more than simple friendship. If you do give it a go, and express your feelings, you should be prepared to lose them as a friend.
2006-08-13 09:18:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No if you have been good friends, for a fair amount of time,, try to stay on that level,,...tell your mate how you feel,, and that you will keep it as mates if they dont wanna take it any further, why lose a good friendship...lifes too short,,and friends few and far between...
2006-08-13 03:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by madmarie666@btinternet.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation. Sometimes great things come out of being friends and taking it a step farther.. and sometimes it can turn the other way. I guess it all depends on the situation and what you both want.
2006-08-13 03:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way, but i think you should be honest and try to explain to your friend how you feel, they will be hurt if you just walk away, and they may feel the same.
i fell for my male mate in a big way and told him unfortunately he didn't feel the same way but our friendshop just got better and better
2006-08-13 04:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should either tell them or walk away because in the end if you dont do anything you suffer anyway
2006-08-13 02:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋