That's an interesting question...I'm a 35 year old women but I dated a lot before I was married at 30. Many times sex and passion can be an addiction and you feel like you are in love and will remain that way forever and in some cases you do. True love is about trust and caring and you don't need to question it, you will know. Does she feel the same way you do? Is she a good person? If you "only" see her as being absolutely beautiful and can't wait to jump her bones, it is sex and passion. Love is deeper and you can still have sex and passion but love, caring and trust is added to the equation. You will know the answer to your question but it may take some time. It took me some time before I found myself truly in love with my husband. Make sure she treats you well and feels the same way about you as you do her. If you both feel that you are in love and want to be with each other all the time, not interested in anyone else but each other, chances are you are in love. Hope this helps, Diane
2006-08-13 11:44:10
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answered by Diane S 1
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Simple, love isn't real, so its a 'crush'. You fancy this girl for a while, but eventually you'll be able to move on, because there isn't 'the one' for you. Just have fun with it and stop worrying about whether its love or not.
2006-08-13 09:47:38
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answered by captaincoolbeard 3
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normally if a guy just sees a gurl and "falls in love" he has a crush bcos he doesnt know her behaviour but wen he gets 2 no how she is and he "falls in love" it might be love or true love ,for true love he will do anything 4 her and would even prepare die 4 her if she is danger and would stil love her no matter what happens 2 her ,but 4 jst luv he might ve 2nd thoughts :))
2006-08-13 09:56:26
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answered by Larrymore 3
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You just know. Love this awsome feeling that you never want to let go of and a crush is just different, you like them but its just not love if you know what I mean.
2006-08-13 09:47:37
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answered by laurenvictoria27 1
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are you sure your a heterosexual?
just get what you can sexually off this broad and see what happens.
that's what i did and now I'm happily married with 2 kids
otherwise, if you over think things, you run the risk of sounding like an insecure little girl.
case in point, this question you just asked
2006-08-13 09:48:37
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answered by Anonymous
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When all he can think about is the girl. He see's the bad with the good about her and still wants to be with her.
2006-08-13 09:47:55
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answered by kate 2
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Try to picture life without her. If it is exceedingly hard to do you may want to consider it as more than a crush.
2006-08-13 09:50:13
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answered by Shebaby 3
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good question and i agree that all you should see in your eyes are the good but the real kicker is when you see all the bad and it doesnt change how you feel the feelings only get stronger
2006-08-13 09:46:35
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answered by *CiTsJuStMe* 4
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If she agrees to marry you within short time however you can offer only basics to her.
2006-08-13 09:50:18
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answered by Ahmad 4
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Real love hurts...your heart feels good...and you will smile every-time you see her
2006-08-13 09:47:17
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answered by babo1dm 6
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