Are young kids really falling in love? I hear the middle and high school relationship stories, and possibly some elementary ones. I wander on people’s online journals, WebPages and info’s on AOL and young girls from the ages of 11-17 are hopelessly in love with their boyfriends.
I find it funny. Looking upon a 13 year olds AOL info it says Adam 3-4-6 I love you, baby. Does this young girl know that the date she put in is August, and we are still in that month? Does she know it takes several months and possibly years to even remotely come close to loving another human being? And do these young girls know that being boyfriend and girlfriend means that you must hang out with your significant other, not just see them at school?
I don’t blame these young girls, whenever I dated someone I always ‘loved’ them within the minute of ‘dating’ them. But I slowly realized that that’s a bunch of ****, you don’t love someone that quickly. Two week relationships aren’t special, they happen everyday. Don’t think you’re unique because you successfully dated someone longer for a day.
I pity these young girls who think they are in love with their boyfriend of three days. I want to shake them and tell them that they are losers and need to get a life. Possibly be hit by a bus or a train. All girls have unfortunately done this when they were younger; some girls have out grown it and realized the true meaning of love. Some still throw that word around like it’s nothing. Love isn’t something you throw around. It should be something you treasure and give to someone you think deserves it. For every guy you say your in love with that doesn’t save anything for the guy you really will love someday. The ‘I love you’s’ will have exploded out of your mouth so many times it won’t feel different or real when you tell the guy your getting married too or the guy you’ve been dating for seven years you love them.
2006-08-13 02:46:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NO ! because at that age, it is not possible to understand what is love. ( i mean loving a guy or girl ) That is lust. Which is just physical attraction of opposite sex. Be careful to get fooled between lust and love. So many boys and girls at that age get fooled by that feelings and goes through hell at that age.
2006-08-13 02:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by dotab 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I know what you mean. I really do. My best friend has a "boyfriend" who she rarley ever meets, and only after a few weeks of knowing him she told him that she loved him. She did this same thing with another guy. It makes me so mad because, like you said, love is something you treasure and give it someone who you think deserves it. I thought after going through this with the first guy she would have learnt her lesson but apparently not. I wish she would learn already.
2006-08-13 02:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by T-Jay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YESSS!!! I fell in love when I was 13 and now i'm almost 17. We still love each other to death <3
2014-02-10 03:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD, you are such an awful person! How can you think like that! I am with my boyfriend for a year, and he loves me very much, and oh yeah, I am 16 he is 18!!!
I am going to report you, because, you made my stomach turn how badly you asked this "question". If somebody asks me, I would ban you from using Yahoo! ever again. You should be ashamed of yourself. YOU ARE NO ONE TO TALK LIKE THAT ABOUT TEENAGE LOVE!!!
Don't spit on other girls just because, obviously you didn't have love in my age.
2006-08-13 02:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by gaca_faca 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
well what most girls feel at this age is called puppy love
2006-08-13 02:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by vedz666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.
2006-08-13 02:50:03 · answer #6 · answered by UVRay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn dude(et) I would read your question but it's too long, lol. Good job at looking smart though.
2006-08-13 02:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by blakefabian2003 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes dey do fall in love
2006-08-13 02:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by sweetbuddy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i dunno there crazy girls that fall in love cause they dont now what 2 do other than me immature!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-13 02:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by cadillac grills cadillac spills! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋