Family & Relationships - 11 August 2006

He needed to take a shower, so I let him come over and take one at the apt my BF and I share. My brother had to go to another job in sales and did not have time to go to his house so he came over here.

My BF was upset and cursing when I told him my brother was coming over.
Who was wrong?

2006-08-11 10:54:56 · 35 answers · asked by sincerely, see me 4 in Family

I'm 24, I have many female friends but have never had a girlfriend. Every girl I like (and don't like) tells me the same thing. "You're such a great guy. You're so smart, funny, and cute. Any girl would be lucky to have you." etc etc. Then why don't THEY like me? Why do girls say these things but don't mean it? I do all the things that I'm supposed to do: make them laugh, ask them about themselves, share things with them, etc. while still being myself. But not one girl has ever fallen for me. It's always "just friends." I love my friends dearly and I appreciate what I have, don't get me wrong. But just once I'd like to experience true love. I know I am capable of so much more than being just another friend to them. It's so devastating when they reject me.

2006-08-11 10:54:50 · 15 answers · asked by Mister_Shhh 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is going to mexico for a long time, i want to make a cd with the best love songs, i don't know if he is coming back and i wand let him know how much i love him. thanks

2006-08-11 10:54:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how'd you feel about your first kiss with your first love? did you think he or she was the one? did you tell youself you wanted to be with that person forever? would you still want to be with that person if there was another chance of seeing that person again?

2006-08-11 10:54:38 · 9 answers · asked by (<' . '<)MoOomOOoo 2 in Singles & Dating

Im goin to TN where my ex lives for a tennis tourny and look at property. After we broke up we were great friends and we stayed great friends when she got a new b/f who treats her like sh!t and her fam hates him and hes just an ***. Even w/a b/f i would still texting goodmorning to her almost everymorning to make her feel loved cuz her b/f doesnt. She stopped talking 2 me about 2 months ago cuz I stopped texing her in the morning so she would see what life w/o me beng there for her is like so she stopped talking to me. I know shes thinking of me cuz she deleted m eoff myspace and says how great her b/f is and how hes the best ever trying to get to me. I want to meet and talk w/her in TN and my plan is not to tell her im goin to TN but just spur of the moment and say meet me at a place and ill be there from a certain time and see if she shows up and will talk to me about what happened and why we fell apart. Is that a good idea or should I try something els. Im 20 and shes 19 if it helps

2006-08-11 10:54:27 · 5 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Singles & Dating

and his Focus on the Family ideals? Mainly, children and divorce. If you dont have an opinion on that specifically, whats your general opinion of his ideals-thanks!

2006-08-11 10:54:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-11 10:54:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know if her mother found out she would really be hurt.My cousin keeps saying that she is going to tell her when she starts showing but I think that would hurt her mother even more.What should I do is it my place to tell her being that I very close to both of them or should I just sit back and watch.

2006-08-11 10:53:10 · 14 answers · asked by NESHA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-11 10:52:18 · 9 answers · asked by Stud Buddah 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy at my church school and i don't really know if he likes me or not i think he does wat should i do?

2006-08-11 10:51:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well problems really started pourin for me after me and my girl broke up and i cant seem to find another girl.. honestly i felt i loved her more than anything in the world and she really changed the way i was from before for the better.. but she had left me and moved on.. i guess karma is real and i got what i deserved for the wrongs ive done back then..i try now to forget but i cant seem to be at peace.. and its been about a year.. now i really cant seem to be able to trust easily for what happend to me.. i dont know how i can start trying to lookin again if im feelin this way.. any wanna help me out on some advice

2006-08-11 10:51:14 · 7 answers · asked by 1stOfTheMonth 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-11 10:50:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-11 10:50:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-11 10:50:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like a man who's friend happens to my ex who i have i child with. My ex and i still get along really well. The man i am interested in is his bestfriend, but he has also been my friend for many years. Is it ok to pursue a relationship with him?

2006-08-11 10:49:59 · 8 answers · asked by scurvychick75 1 in Singles & Dating

...or should his wife be considered his best friend?

2006-08-11 10:49:58 · 13 answers · asked by vanillaspice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My youngest graduated this May, he is in the Navy and leaves for basic on Feb 1 The more I am around their father, the more annoying I find in everything he(their dad) he says or does. Do I need to move on or just tough it out?

2006-08-11 10:49:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok there is a boy in my class that i like
we always chill together with "OUR" best friend
my best friend is always sayin that i like him and he likes me but my best friend and the kid i like are best friends also so i dont know what that means but i know his number but i can never call him and the only time i do is if one of ma otha friends is on tha line so i make them talk first and he will talk but then when i start talking he wont really talk and then hell be like aaa i gotta go
HELP??

2006-08-11 10:49:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he's so cute but definately looks aren't everything in my book but i don't know how to tell him that if we are to be he needs to start shaping up himself??????????

2006-08-11 10:49:07 · 17 answers · asked by annebops 2 in Friends

Tonight I am going to my ex's show, my old f*ck buddy will be there, a guy I hook up with when I am drunk will be there, and the guy I am seeing now is coming.

But the funny thing is, no one knows about each other... hahaha

2006-08-11 10:48:43 · 8 answers · asked by C-BIZZLE 2 in Singles & Dating

So, I'm kind of 'dating' this guy and I've just been letting him to decide what to do on a date cause I have no ideas.
So anything will be helpful. Suggest different ideas for a date with a guy that you like. What would you do?

2006-08-11 10:48:21 · 5 answers · asked by amjl81 2 in Singles & Dating

is he lying? could he be telling the truth?
i know him and the guys went out, and they supposably went to
an aftr party (i dont mind that he went) but i do mind that he smelled like cheap dollar tree perfume! could he be telling the truth about "Just dancing"? he didnt even take a shower when he got home, he just laid in bed with me?

2006-08-11 10:48:00 · 15 answers · asked by nani l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-11 10:47:31 · 4 answers · asked by laura f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whenever i see a cd.... i have to break it in half... i dont know why... ppl get so pissed.. but i cant help it. one time the schools drill team was dancing in front of the whole school, and i walked up to the cd player and broke the cd in it! ppl were so pissed! what should i do?! i wish i could stop breaking cds!

2006-08-11 10:47:25 · 3 answers · asked by Lexi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is that cheating?

2006-08-11 10:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by Patrick Bateman 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i get turned on a lot with it and have great fun

2006-08-11 10:46:29 · 13 answers · asked by juicylucy 3 in Singles & Dating

let's hear some concrete reasons/actions why exactly you love your spouse...
I'll start by... having a nice dinner cooked each night for me!

2006-08-11 10:45:26 · 4 answers · asked by cooler 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Because my friends always tell me "hey man, you will never get a Girlfriend if you put girls high above, like in an altar"

Also that I should take them for granted, that I should be mean, that I shouldn't buy them presents, treat them nice or love them very much, because If I do that then they will take me for granted and leave me....

They tell me that I should be nice one day, mean the next day and so on...thats the way it works they say...

2006-08-11 10:45:12 · 5 answers · asked by alvarito8 2 in Singles & Dating

ive lied to my girlfriend a few times now, weve been together 9 months and we love each other so much, we want to be together for life and we consider each other soulmates.

But i told her a few months ago about what my parents really did for a living and also i faked that i had an ex-gf when she was my first relationship. i dont know why i lied bcos they are silly minor things that mean nothing, but i lied and finally ive hidden from myself as ive always denied it, and from her, that i was a virgin when im not.

i had sex once before i met my gf with a girl i barely knew, and it was the only time, it didnt mean anything and i dont ever think of it but i lied and now i dont think she trusts me. i know for a fact that she would trust me not to cheat i wouldnt and i know that in my heart but i dont know how to explain why i hid it...i guess i wanted everything to be perfect.

shes a virgin and we havent had sex and we dont intend to before marriage, and im 100% fine with that.

2006-08-11 10:44:50 · 20 answers · asked by bobbyvalentine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-11 10:44:12 · 9 answers · asked by melissa s 1 in Singles & Dating