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Because my friends always tell me "hey man, you will never get a Girlfriend if you put girls high above, like in an altar"

Also that I should take them for granted, that I should be mean, that I shouldn't buy them presents, treat them nice or love them very much, because If I do that then they will take me for granted and leave me....

They tell me that I should be nice one day, mean the next day and so on...thats the way it works they say...

2006-08-11 10:45:12 · 5 answers · asked by alvarito8 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Yes! We like being on pedestals, as long as they are only tall enough to put us eye-to-eye! OK, OK, maybe we like you to look up an inch or two, but we get dizzy if the pedestals are too high!

My husband of 36 years put me up on a little pedestal the day we met, and my feet haven't touched the ground yet ... and I love it that way!

If you keep your current outlook, the woman who gets you will be just as fortunate!

2006-08-11 11:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by baeb47 5 · 0 0

Your friends are jerks, sorry to say.

Also, no woman wants to be put on a pedastal. It's too high to fall from. Treat your woman like a gentleman, don't assume she's perfect and love her none-the-less.

If you treat her badly, she'll treat you badly. Simple as that.

Good luck!

2006-08-11 10:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0 0

...and if they jumped off a cliff (rocks beneath- not water), because they think it's cool...you will, too? Be yourself! If you get a girl who prefer men who are like that, then you could never trust her with your buddies,....because then you knew she likes their kinds...not your individual true self...I don't know if you understand what I'm trying to explain.
Don't pretend to be nice though...only until you get what you want, because that's a form of being a jerk also.
There are many forms of jerks (ten- I believe)...don't be any of them.

2006-08-11 10:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1 0

I think you should be nice to your gf... when you get one, or if you have one. Get her gifts, to show that she means something to you, but she should get you gifts to for the same reason. Dating is an equal partnership, not just one person doing everthing.

P.S,
Don't listen to your friends, I wouldn't be surprised if they don't have anyone.

2006-08-11 10:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by parentslittleprincess66 2 · 0 0

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2006-08-11 10:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by deus82 3 · 0 0

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