I know if her mother found out she would really be hurt.My cousin keeps saying that she is going to tell her when she starts showing but I think that would hurt her mother even more.What should I do is it my place to tell her being that I very close to both of them or should I just sit back and watch.
2006-08-11 10:53:10 · 14 answers · asked by NESHA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is your cousin receiving prenatal care? If not, then maybe you should tell your cousin if she doesn't tell her mother,you will. Explain to your cousin that you want the best for the baby and right now the baby needs prenatal care. Advise her that if she does not receive prenatal care, her baby can have all types of problems.
If she's receiving prenatal care, tell her you would be there to support her when she tells her mother.
2006-08-11 13:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this case she has no other choice but to tell her mother how long is she going to wait until it shows and then say ' oh ya i meant to talk to u abt this' u dont get involved at all or u will be in trouible her mom might blame u for being a bad influence on her or that u knew and did not tell her. just relax and try to tell ur cousin its now or never and she should have known better any way specially when she has a kid already. this is something that has to be done nowwwwwwwww
2006-08-11 10:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your cousin to tell her mom. It is really important and her mom needs to know because her having the baby effects a lot of lives and she needs to be told what has been ha pining around her. What happened about the other baby? did she have an abortion. whatever you do try not to have an abortion because its a living being and it is wrong just to kill it just because it is not a good time for her to have a baby. If she didn't want a baby then she should have been protected. So she needs to have a long talk to her mom about both of the pregnancy's.
2006-08-11 10:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lion Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your cousin's mother. She needs to know and maybe your cousin is hoping you say something so she wont have to. I know when i was pregnant at 17 i was hoping i didnt have to be the one to tell my mom. i would have been happy if she found out from someone else.
2006-08-11 11:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cousin needs to tell her mom because if she tells her mom later she wil hurts her moms felling so tell you cousin to tell her mom or them her would not going to talk to her like for along time trust me.
2006-08-11 11:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by lovable kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be best to let her tell her mom herself.She would feel better hearing the truth from her daughter.I know this from experience.Maybe you should try talking to your cuz because she's probably scared as hell.Let her know how important it is that she tell her mom.
2006-08-11 11:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she will be poor her entire life if she gives birth to children
She needs to get an education
2006-08-11 10:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her mother needs to know... I think you should tell her.
2006-08-11 10:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not in your place to say anything she needs to grow up and tell her mom that she is pregnant. if she's old enough to get pregnant than she is old enough to man up to her responsibilities!
2006-08-11 10:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby needs pre - natal care - someone responsible needs to intervene
2006-08-11 10:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋