He needed to take a shower, so I let him come over and take one at the apt my BF and I share. My brother had to go to another job in sales and did not have time to go to his house so he came over here.
My BF was upset and cursing when I told him my brother was coming over.
Who was wrong?
2006-08-11 10:54:56 · 35 answers · asked by sincerely, see me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're paying rent too, right? Enough said.
2006-08-11 11:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by AB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend is acting in a very odd manner. It's not like your brother has lost his apartment and is camping out with you two for a while; he just wanted to take a shower and leave. I would definitely tell your brother that it's probably not a good idea to do it again. But at the same time, you have been given a very good indication what your life would be with your boyfriend if you married the guy. He sounds domineering and willing to get upset at the smallest of things. What is he going to do when you want to attend family functions? Is he going to get upset over that next? It sounds to me like your boyfriend never grew up.
2006-08-11 11:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a little jealous..and cracked. Maybe he thought he was getting some or something?
HE was wrong unless you knew about some plans the two of you had together. There's no reason to flip over your bro coming for a shower..
Your BF sounds like he's trying to be a brother.
2006-08-11 10:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by southrngirl2724 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why such a big deal over your brother taking a shower or coming over..
your boyfriend has issues he needs to deal with, within himself it seems..
You are in the right letting your own brother come over and shower...
2006-08-11 11:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't do it every day so what's wrong with your family member using the shower ? The guy isn't a bum off the street. Tell BF to back off your family. Remember , friends will come & friends will go, but your family will never leave you.
2006-08-11 11:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 09:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by adleman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your BF should be more understanding than that. Your bro needed a quick shower and hey blood is thicker than water. Do they not like each other or something?
2006-08-11 10:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by stick man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you said you share the apt, have who you want over.
In fact dump ur BF and get ur brother to share the apt with you
2006-08-11 10:58:12 · answer #8 · answered by onename 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask him why he was upset with your brother coming over? It seems to me he would have had a reason to get that upset. So, I can't answer honestly without knowing WHY he got upset? If he got upset because your brother was coming over to clean up I would be looking for another place to live if I were you.
OR I would ask him to leave. But he's nuts if that upset him.
2006-08-11 11:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend was in the wrong. What has he got against your brother? Anyway, I think it was the nice thing to do to offer your shower to him.
2006-08-11 10:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf is wrong and obviously controlling. Is he jealous of your brother coming over ?? What other reason would he have to be mad ?? He is an *sshole.
2006-08-11 10:57:36 · answer #11 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋