well problems really started pourin for me after me and my girl broke up and i cant seem to find another girl.. honestly i felt i loved her more than anything in the world and she really changed the way i was from before for the better.. but she had left me and moved on.. i guess karma is real and i got what i deserved for the wrongs ive done back then..i try now to forget but i cant seem to be at peace.. and its been about a year.. now i really cant seem to be able to trust easily for what happend to me.. i dont know how i can start trying to lookin again if im feelin this way.. any wanna help me out on some advice
2006-08-11 10:51:14 · 7 answers · asked by 1stOfTheMonth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you said the best statement, "I don't know how I can start trying to look again if I'm feeling this way." That's a good way to think, because if you try to be in a relationship with someone when you are still hurting, you end up hurting that person and making your own pain worse. Just keep working on healing yourself, and when you are ready, start dating again.
2006-08-11 10:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't look again. At least not for right now. You got to take this time and work on yourself. You gotta use that unfortunately late hindsight to your advantage. Look at what you have done and what others have done to you. Make the appropriate changes. Maybe talk to some girls and date just a little bit here and there but only do it in groups. No one on one. It's to personal and you got to rebuild yourself right now. Build great friendships before you move on the the more serious things. It's in your best interest. When you start feeling comfortable with yourself. Then you will know that you are ready for the dating world.
2006-08-11 10:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ill Prophet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Another girl will come along and you'll be back in the saddle again in no time. But while you're waiting, make the most of every day and put others before yourself. Get busy. Time and a new girl will mend your broken heart.
2006-08-11 11:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Perils of Paulette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look back & move on, if she did it....so can you. Go out, have fun & just enjoy life. You'r world is NOT gonna end because of her. If you think/know this is karma, let it be lesson learned to you. You will do better next relationship.
Best luck =)
2006-08-11 11:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by liz920 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree.
Life is full of tribulations...learn from them. Look at it this way: unless you are 90....don't get nervous about not having a girlfriend ....because men can have young girlfriends even passed 50. Love will come when least expected.
2006-08-11 11:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you DO NOT deserve that; karma or not, ok? secondly, you won't be able to trust again until you allow yourself to. the answers for all of this lies within yourself.
2006-08-11 10:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is exactly what you should tell her............find her and let her know all this!!!
2006-08-11 11:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by Nope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋