Family & Relationships - 4 August 2006

I am 23. My husband is 25.

I started dating him when I was 18.

I lived in my own apartment, was paying for my college education and working full time.

We married right before my 22nd birthday.

We went thru a lot of stress that tested our relationship for the first 2.5 years. His family didn't want him to marry me and caused trouble.

We stuck it out, married and now are SO happy. We have more love for each other now than we did 5 years ago.

He is the most beautiful person (inside and out) I have ever known and I am so honored to be his wife and we plan to start a family next year.

People hear my age and they say things like:

I married too young and I am more likely to divorce

When I am 30 I may realize 21/22 was too young to marry

I am naive to think we will be together forever.

I just hear a lot of people bashing young married couples.

Why can’t we be the ones that DO make it?

2006-08-04 06:57:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whenever I get left alone I get scared and want to cut myself to help my anxiety...am I a freak? :(

2006-08-04 06:57:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'd like the opinion of men on this question as well.
What would you say about a guy who hated oral sex, hated the natural sexual scent of a woman, has a small penis, no stamina and the only way to get a woman off is to use his finger?

2006-08-04 06:56:35 · 34 answers · asked by Renee 2 in Singles & Dating

and I know I am goig to hug him so much and cry a bit cause I have missed him so much but I am just scared of doing so because I am embarrassed of being mushy in front of my family. I know he will love it , a return like that and I KNOW THAT i AM GOINGTO CRY AND HUG HIM but I am not sure if I should hold back and just hug him lightly and then do all the hugging and all because my family is there? I really want to hug hime like crazy and kiss him right when he gets back. What should I do?

2006-08-04 06:56:34 · 18 answers · asked by Lindsay 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but i don't know if he likes me. He's always gazing at me and i'm always mean to him. I told him i like him but he says he dusn't like me. What do i do??

2006-08-04 06:56:06 · 3 answers · asked by lyssalynnt 1 in Family

I have a real flat butt and my boyfriend likes a big juicy booty. I am going to get injections. Which booty looks better. Jlo's or Beyonce?

2006-08-04 06:55:26 · 11 answers · asked by bicheeeened30 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok well I like this guy and stuff and he likes me and stuff but when we talk on IM it's like kinda weird and stuff, so we never have anything to say. But I like talking to him so what do you think are some things I should or could say to keep him on IM and stuff so we can longer. You know like when you get the LOL thing going and then you can't think of anything else to say, any ideas?

2006-08-04 06:55:04 · 35 answers · asked by Kelsie A 2 in Singles & Dating

i think the things that make people happy at one age may not be the same as another

2006-08-04 06:55:02 · 29 answers · asked by wonder2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK well I have this problem...
I can go up to ANY girl and talk to her, and eventually we will become like close friends. I don't want to be just friends with every girl I meet...that would be the reason I am 19 and still a virgin. How the hell do you get into a relationship with a girl? I am like skipping a step here or something.....HELP

2006-08-04 06:54:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 06:53:54 · 6 answers · asked by Petals 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and I live together, but when I go to work, he calls me throughout the day and when I don't answer my cell or work phone he ask where were you? why didn't I answer his call? ect. I tell him becuz I wasn't at my desk. Then sometime he asks stupid questions like he's testing our relationship to see what I would say. If I answer with a different response than his he would get affended and starts a little argument. Why does he do this? Is he insucure about himself? He also checks my phone at time even after we both changed our numbers. Its like he wants to catch me cheating on him. Or he thinks I am cheating on him. I don't know why he would think that if I live with him and I am with him after work and before work. I have talk to him and ask him why? He says he doesn't want to lose me. Is this the true answer?

2006-08-04 06:53:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 06:52:57 · 33 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my sis isn't in a good heathy relationship with her hubby. they never get along and he doesn't give her any money but he doesnt want her to work either. he has a car and what not but she cant even get her license. she has to ask me for a dollar when we go to mcdonalds. (sad but true.) he is rude to her and everyone else. my only neice is almost 1 and she isn't allowed to be alone with me or spend the night with me ( i stay with my mom right now.) its the same way with my mom. he doesnt like us because we dont like his family (drugs and no jobs- his mom does favors for money... seriously. she tells everyone her self. she has done everything but make up business cards!!) its not like im 12 or something. i've got my second on the way also. and they live in a garage... he doesnt want to pay for a real house... is it wrong for me to put my 2cents in? i dont think it is. she asks for it sometimes but only when she is getting something for free. i see her once a mo and she lives 10 mins away

2006-08-04 06:52:56 · 8 answers · asked by chickie27 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-04 06:52:48 · 16 answers · asked by bicheeeened30 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 06:52:37 · 7 answers · asked by kevin m 2 in Singles & Dating

Two girls in their early twenties have flirted very obviously with me lately. I want to respond but don't want to embarrass myself either. Hoow many girls in their 20s are really attracted to men over 40?

2006-08-04 06:52:17 · 10 answers · asked by colnelingus 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats worked for you?

2006-08-04 06:52:12 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny J 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been waiting for 2 in a half weeks for this guy.

2006-08-04 06:51:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

MY girlfriend is currently taking anti-deppressan... since then she has had difficulty achieving an orgasm?
I cant hyelp but think thers is something wrong with me or us she swearss its not us its the medicine , is this normal and what is the best thing to do???

Like having relax with some alcohol perhaps,,I would try anything at this point as it hurts me inside that I no longer make her orgasm

2006-08-04 06:51:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 06:51:16 · 4 answers · asked by beknownas 2 in Singles & Dating

Everyone wants to be with some one atrractive . As long as that girl is beautiful in my eyes. I don't care what others think of her. But they will repect her.

2006-08-04 06:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by drako_evans21 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 06:51:05 · 32 answers · asked by sctmoran 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-04 06:51:04 · 31 answers · asked by katlin 1 in Singles & Dating

1) If you get layed off your Job?
2) and "unemployment" in your state is at an all time high!
I mean if you can't even get a job in a burger joint, because No-one is hiring then Why are we non-cust. held accountable for Thousands in back child support??
Does that sound fair...its not a non-custodial parents fault by no means, that the judicial system does not Factor, anything beyond circumstances of which you can "not control"!
For one thing... "If" your still married and get "layed off" your not responsible for "child support" then, why is it "not" Court ordered to "pay child support" if the Judicial System is soo desperate for Money, of which they make money on... shouldnt it be wrong to tax child support, and tack interest on it too and then you get whats left??
What Gives, this is Soo wrong, its like a legalized form of extortion, and they are using our kids to make money with... and it sucks that almost 1,000,000 non custodial parents live on "half" of their income!!??

2006-08-04 06:50:58 · 15 answers · asked by World of Controversy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Heading to Baltimore's Inner Harbor. Does anyone know of some exciting things to do and see there?

2006-08-04 06:50:53 · 1 answers · asked by Beaumeader 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me??? OOOOOHHH yeah!! I do!!....^_<

2006-08-04 06:50:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 06:50:37 · 4 answers · asked by love_makes_fly 1 in Singles & Dating

i like sex bat i ashamed f saying this to him

2006-08-04 06:50:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

whats the point?

2006-08-04 06:50:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do i get then to get along?

2006-08-04 06:49:41 · 7 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Friends