OK well I have this problem...
I can go up to ANY girl and talk to her, and eventually we will become like close friends. I don't want to be just friends with every girl I meet...that would be the reason I am 19 and still a virgin. How the hell do you get into a relationship with a girl? I am like skipping a step here or something.....HELP
2006-08-04 06:54:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I am not saying it is bad to still be a virgin...but...well it just isnt me...well it is as of right now but...u know what I mean
2006-08-04 07:00:56 · update #1
Hey tx_boy19,
That's great that you are able to talk to girls and that you can make close friends that way. That is definitely the first step and that is the main problem that most guys have. If some of these girls are truly close friends, you should be able to ask them about this and what they think is wrong with you. Maybe you need to join a gym or work on your acne or something.
It's not just talking though. You need to take them out on dates, tx_boy19. Especially a dinner and a movie type of date. Usually after the third date, if they don't want to have sex with you, it's time to move on. Usually if you are with one girl pretty steady, something will happen.
Have you ever considered taking older women out too. Younger girls just aren't as much into sex, and frankly, think that they are "all that". There's a lot to be said for seeing older women. There's truth in that old saying, "They don't tell, don't swell, and grateful as hell."
Happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-08-04 07:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why is being a virgin at 19 a bad thing?????? But you've just got to take your chances and ask them out. You never know until you ask.
2006-08-04 06:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should just tell them how u feel! 19 and still a virgin! that is pretty good!
2006-08-04 07:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let them know you want to be more then friends as you talk to them on the phone!! its ok to act like your friends the first 2 times you tlak on the phone but after that you need to ask her if she wants a boyfriend or just a friend!!!!
2006-08-04 07:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by M3DIC@L AS$ISTANt '08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start flirting with her!! Your probably sending the wrong message and giving off a signal that you just want to be friends first. don't talk about her problems, talk about her and you.
2006-08-04 06:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by civicsea25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋