2006-08-04 06:52:57 · 33 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Feel flattered but make her realize that I am married and no hanky panky business!!
2006-08-04 06:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by TOO HOT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a college professor this happened at least once each semester. I had a policy never to meet with a female student with my office door closed, so no physical contact issues could arise. It also reduced the intensity of the come-on. I'd brush off the first attempt as if I didn't notice what was happening.
Then I went home and told my wife I'd been hit on again. I told her who, when and where; so there would be no question of me hiding anything. And, if the student responded to the "rejection" by lying, or causing trouble, she could never cause trouble in the marriage. My wife already knew all about her.
2006-08-04 07:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on! What do you want us to say? She is looking for a piece of the pie instead of the whole pie? If this girl is okay with hanging out with a married man, sneaking around, etc, then she has an obvious self esteem issue.
You? Tell her you are married. Show her pictures of your beautiful kids. Then walk away. Go make an appointment with a counselor. You could use a few months working through your marital issues.
2006-08-04 06:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be flattered that you are attractive to her, but think about your wife and kids. It may be that she gets off on trying to distract a guy's attention away from his wife just to validate her own low self-esteem "HA! I WON!". This is a game that girls play when they doubt themselves and their desirablilty. It would be cheating if you had freindships or relationships with other women that do not involve your wife. It may be tempting because it makes you feel desirable and saught after, but if your marriage lacks that, or you don't get that feeling from your wife, do NOT turn away from her to someone else to fix it. She is the woman you choose to be your life partner, so turn to her and tell her what happened and how it made you feel. Ask her to pick you up in a bar, pursue you, and seduce you. Don't stop dating and trying to win each other over.....not matter how long you have been married. Treat your wife well and make her feel like bragging to her friends about how great you are. This will feel so much better than some chick with low self-esteem trying to get your attention....
2006-08-04 07:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have to ask this ? maybe telling her ur married really isn't what u want to say to her. I've been going through that same thing, u just tell her what it is. I'm HAPPILY married and don't get down like that!!!
2006-08-04 07:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you have to ask this question makes me think that you are probably the "Cheating kind". If you don't know the answer to that one.. Then maybe you shouldn't be married!
2006-08-04 07:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by Beebopz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile, say that you are flattered that a gorgeous girl like her is interested in you and politely tell her "How about we go to your place"...whoops what I meant was you politely tell her "I am married".
2006-08-04 07:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it depends on your marriage. If your wife has been a cheating pig, go for it. If you love your wife, then no one should ever come between you.
2006-08-04 10:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married just say NO (just like drugs)
2006-08-04 06:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call 1-800-Marriott and get a room with her.
2006-08-04 07:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋