Ok well I like this guy and stuff and he likes me and stuff but when we talk on IM it's like kinda weird and stuff, so we never have anything to say. But I like talking to him so what do you think are some things I should or could say to keep him on IM and stuff so we can longer. You know like when you get the LOL thing going and then you can't think of anything else to say, any ideas?
2006-08-04 06:55:04 · 35 answers · asked by Kelsie A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry about saying "and stuff" so much, and for you who said that internet relationships are bad- I go to church with him and we know each other really well we're good friends. Also to the sick guys and girls who said stuff about like naked and stuff advice to you, go get help!!!! Plus I know him so it's kinda weird but thank you to wiseroxy because you gave me some real advice, to wiseroxy I don't know though it's like he's a good friend but I like him, and I like talking to him he's the only one ever on the IM thing for me!!
2006-08-04 07:15:32 · update #1
Well you sound young, so I would suggest a little trick that us old ladys learned on how to talk to a guy. Everybody likes to talk about themselves! So ask questions about him! Did you like the movie you saw? What is your curfew? What kinda cars do you like and why? Whenever there is "dead air" pull one of your questions out. But don't be too nosey or ask too many, he might think your a busy body.
2006-08-04 07:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by wiseroxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to improve is your language skills. Not everything is resolved with an "and stuff". Talk to him about movies, music, common interests. Keep on a roll, telling some jokes. But let me tell you that online relationships never last. The first drawback is distance. I wouldn't waste my time if I was you.
2006-08-04 07:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Random Questions are super fun and can get hilarious. You can ask: Pencil or Pen? If you had three different color of construction paper, which one would you choose out of green, blue, or red.
Or you can play a word game. Like making up a story. You start off with two words and then he picks two words, and then you and him.... Like this:
A: The dog
B: went on
A: a journey
B: to the
A: crazy park....blah blah.
It's more fun if you know the other person.
2006-08-04 07:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid the word stuff, god that's irritating. You are already online, so why not play online games or somethin? Most instant messaging services have them built in, or yahoo do a whole list of games that you can muck around with together. Pool's usually a good one.
2006-08-04 06:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is lots of "stuff". I think you realize that there are going to be a lot of answers to your question insinuating that you say "stuff" way too much. When you talk to him try to not say "stuff" so much. Good Luck!
2006-08-04 06:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can start immediately by losing the expression "and stuff" from your conversation. No wonder you have nothing to talk about. Just say what's on your mind and no "and stuff"
2006-08-04 06:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by schenzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him questions about himself. I know it sounds stupid, but ask him when his birthday is, what kind of sports he likes, whats his favorite food. Whats the first thing he thinks of when he wakes up in the morning. Ask him about his family. This should get the ball rolling build on the information he gives you and share with him what you think.
2006-08-04 06:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by heidinichole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could stop using the word stuff after every sentence. Thats very annoying.
2006-08-04 06:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mephisto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the idea of telling him you're naked! That should really start a conversation. LOL. That's funny.
2006-08-04 06:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surf the web, like Yahoo! Answers, you can talk about questions people post.
2006-08-04 06:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by hawk200022000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋