Family & Relationships - 2 August 2006

why? and if so what would you do?

2006-08-02 10:27:09 · 22 answers · asked by irena 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband got married big mistake right. Well I was 19 now I am 25 and I have a new job and want friends and stuff. I say that because when I was going to school and started to have friends he became more controlling and more mean telling me that I was cheating on him when all I really wanted was to have a girl to talk to and friends to be thier. It got out of hand and physical I called the cops but it was he said she said and no one got taken in. I left because I didnt want my child to see us fighting everyday. Filed for devorice and was told that I CANT GET ONE. thats right we have to go to parent, couple classes, and anger managment, that was to much for 8 months I did that now I live here again and the girls ask me if I can go with them and I cant because my husband will think I am cheating on him and I cant take that but it makes me sad, and I know I cant live like this. what sould I do . Of course their is more to this but that would take days to explain.

2006-08-02 10:27:02 · 9 answers · asked by clgpink 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He hasnt released in me for 7 months. I am 20yrs old and want sex all the time. I am lucky to get it. He gets distracted with things all the time. When we start having sex he just stops and gets off me and lays down ready to sleep. I havent *** or orgasimed and visa versa. It started like this when we first started dating a year ago. He has come up with so many excuses that i could make a book. Ive offered to try stuff for him, diff positions, etc. Nothing works. We did have a baby four months ago. But would it seem like my sex drive should be gone, not his. He says its not me and not him. I dont know what to do anymore. Its driving me nutts. I want sex!!!!!

2006-08-02 10:26:42 · 11 answers · asked by dncr62104 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i will explain my question my best friend is like black mailing me to keep this secret she knows i have over her... if i say anything this guy i care about and like alot will get hurt by her because she will destory my chance at happiness if i ruin hers... i wouldn't think of telling but i can't hold this in anymore... this guy i care about and like knows i am holding something and he knows its possible that if i comes out my life will be ruin he told me to just drop it and it will go away... what should i do?? i know what i should do but yeah if i do that it could cost me my future with this guy i truely care about more then anything in the world... and this secret of her will affect not just her but her boy friend as well so i am very confused help me please!!!!

2006-08-02 10:26:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

About a year ago, I fell in love with someone with whom I thought was right for me, but eventually wasn't. Does anyone think that love at first sight can sometimes be wrong?

2006-08-02 10:25:47 · 31 answers · asked by beauty&mind 1 in Singles & Dating

I fell madly in love with a woman that to me is the most beautiful thing God ever created. I have heard people make conversation about her in the past before I knew her and they called her ugly because she has a ****** eye and in her low self esteem she used to be heavy into drugs and put out easy just for the attention. Then one night I met her and we struck up a conversation and I think she is beautiful with a wonderful personality. She is quite intellegent and witty. Yes I noticed she has a bad self esteem issue thing going on, but outside of that I see a gorgeous woman. My friends all tell me to get the poonanny and leave her because I can get a better looking woman. I dont see what is ugly about her. A past is the past and I have one too, so how can I judge her for what she has done. Is beauty really in the eye of the beholder? Because with this woman I see nothing but her beauty.

2006-08-02 10:25:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 10:25:32 · 15 answers · asked by Microbiology.girl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

im young and i've been cutting myself for a year now. evryday theres something bad tat happens in my life. i really wonna stop cuttiing myself but i feel like im addicted 2 it. can u guys plz help me or atleast give me an advice?

2006-08-02 10:25:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had recently posted a question on here and I was reported and the question was deleted. I am going to hire a lawyer and sue Yahoo to get my 5 points back. It will cost around $4,000 but it is well worth it to me. Now my wife sees it different and she is pissed at me. Should I continue with the suit despite her reactions? After all 5 points is 5 points.

2006-08-02 10:24:31 · 22 answers · asked by Andy S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok heres the deal .. iv been on and off with this guy for ill saya bout a year ... and we recently broke up and nows hes with this girl i thought was my friend but abovisly not cause she new i loved him hes the only guy in the hole world i have ever loved and u can say he was my first love but im confused .... why doesnt he love me anymore ... i havent changed

2006-08-02 10:24:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents only want me to date boys that have the same religion that I do. But what if I like a guy and he likes me and asks me out, but he has a different religion?

Thank you all for answering!

2006-08-02 10:24:05 · 61 answers · asked by meowie711 2 in Singles & Dating

it with the child?

2006-08-02 10:23:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 10:22:59 · 3 answers · asked by G funk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like my friend and it's clear he likes me too. i'm worried about our friendship afterwards if we were to break up. i really like him though.

2006-08-02 10:21:48 · 21 answers · asked by vicky 2 in Friends

2006-08-02 10:21:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my girlfriend came back and she's always calling me bad names and stuff. I really like her. It seems now Im nothing to her. I wish she would respect me. What should I do?

2006-08-02 10:21:39 · 15 answers · asked by Erick S 1 in Singles & Dating

I do sometimes and I feel kind of bad about it. Some people just can't keep me interested once I've figured them out.

2006-08-02 10:21:15 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 10:21:01 · 14 answers · asked by Kool Koco 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance' is mad because I lied to him about who was at my house while he was at work. I lied to protect my cousin cause she brought two guys over and didnt want her boyfriend to know! He thinks I cheated on him b/c I lied and now wants to push our wedding back! What should I do try to change his mind or let it be?! Our wedding is supposed to be this september and I still have stuff to get done!

2006-08-02 10:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by Mallory G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my friend had a good friendship but then she started to act rude..I kind of think it is this girl who is friends with her but not w/me!! (she is so MEAN)

2006-08-02 10:19:57 · 14 answers · asked by Coo Coo For coco 1 in Friends

im single n looking for a free group with woman lookin for single men

2006-08-02 10:19:45 · 3 answers · asked by buckie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 10:19:23 · 1 answers · asked by dressagebelle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 10:19:17 · 14 answers · asked by chaopred 3 in Singles & Dating

son 16 bday

2006-08-02 10:19:09 · 5 answers · asked by Sonia L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad spent time in the hospital recently (3weeks) and at first his new wife and I got along fine.My dad and I are very close, and I've always taken care of him when he is sick. He's been battling this problem for 8 years. We got along fine till she started saying things like, it's HER job to take care of him now, and telling me what I'm going to do at the hospital. They have only been married for a year, and I don't like people telling me what to do when it comes to my family. Her family was there, and they were being very snotty. I do understand that they are married now and that does constitute at least some respect for her, but what do I do going forward? Her daughter is my age and she flipped out on me, yelled at me, then hung up on me. She talked bad about my dad to me, then was all sweet and nice to his face. I am not going to let them come in between me and my dad. What do I do?

2006-08-02 10:18:24 · 6 answers · asked by Motherof2 2 in Family

2006-08-02 10:18:17 · 5 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

ok here is the deal i went to school with him from k5 to 3rd grade.he left to go to another school and i am going to the 7th grade and so is he but this year i am going to the same school he changed to.we were best friends when we were little and i never get nervous talking to him

2006-08-02 10:18:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with my girlfriend, and decided it was time to get revenge for breaking my heart. I was thinking about sending indiscreet pics of her to her present boss at work. Is this a good idea?

2006-08-02 10:17:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Then if you want to e-mail them,they don,t have the ball's to post an e-mail address.Do they use this site out of hate?Is this the place to get out all your personal anger?Some of them are so disrespectful to everybody.Has Hate taken over everybody?

2006-08-02 10:17:23 · 6 answers · asked by Wishee 4 in Singles & Dating

It was while he was at work. She left a casual message. When he got home from work I was already asleep. When I woke up at 6am he wasn't there, the message had been played and the caller ID checked. He came about 8am with a blanket saying he was out washing it. I don't believe him, we did laundry on Monday and I have never known him to go out to the laundrymat for just a blanket we don't even need right now. (it's hot as he** and we have a blanket to use in case it gets chilly)
Should I call her and ask her if he was there last night or would that be wrong?
I'm already leaving him regardless, but should I just get this confirmation of his cheating?

2006-08-02 10:17:14 · 8 answers · asked by real_sweetheart_76 5 in Singles & Dating