I recently broke up with my girlfriend, and decided it was time to get revenge for breaking my heart. I was thinking about sending indiscreet pics of her to her present boss at work. Is this a good idea?
2006-08-02 10:17:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you do something like that it will only come back to haunt you. If what you want is to make her feel badly for whatever she did to you, this is not the way. You'll only make her feel like that she made the right choice in NOT being with you.
The best is bettering yourself! REALLY! Be financially stable. Whatever your line of work is, put everything into it while your there. If your in a dead end job, find a better one. Whenever you go out, look your best. Start working out, you might meet someone who you can focus your attention on, and exercise will make you feel better anyway.
This worked for my brother. He was devastated when his wife asked for a divorce. Now he has a better job, which he is really doing well at. The company that he works for is sending him to school. He just bought a new house. He started working out as a distraction. He started to notice that he felt better and so he kept it up and now he looks better too. Not too long after that he met someone. Two years later, they are happy and now have a brand new baby boy.
He still runs into his ex. He told me that about 6 or 7 mos. ago she called and said how horrible she felt about everything and he let her talk and tell him how well he was doing and that she was lonely... blah, blah, blah. Then he got to say, "I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling that way but I'm happy and doing well. I don't need you or want you in my life." He said that was the best feeling ever, and I'm so proud of him.
I hope this helps. you sound like a nice guy that just met a not so nice chick. My advice to you is simple; move on. You feel so much better. Try not to be so bitter and angry that you miss out on something or someone that could be great in your life.
Best Wishes and Good Luck to you.
2006-08-02 10:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO young man. That idea is both ungentlemanly and illegal. In fact you should send any and all "indecent" images of her BACK to her, thereby proving you're a real man. Besides, once you did something that low-down, there's not another woman in your radius that would ever trust you with an intimate moment again (it WOULD "get around", goofball. And you, not her, would be the one to end-up looking bad).
PS: The "best revenge" is living well. Be happy, get a hot new thing or two (I always recommend a pair and a spare) and let her suffer knowing YOU are not.
PSS: If you can't bring yourself to send the pics to her, send them to me. That way you won't be tempted to do anything stupid with them. And who knows? I may even "accidentally" post them on the Internet.
;-)
2006-08-02 10:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to be a success. Go out with friends and socialize. Be the best you can be and someone special will want to be with you. When your ex finds out, she will be hurt. Make sure you don't talk about her to friends - you have class. You would be very sorry if you did something spiteful to her. Let her go. She will be the same with the new guy - that should be enough to make you go out and celebrate.
2016-03-27 15:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..unless you like doing jail time. It's a good way to get yourself sued, fined, arrested and all sorts of things, Does she mean so much to you that you can't just say "screw it" and walk away?
If you let this break up define who you are and what you do, then you're just letting her control your life for that much longer.
The best possible revenge is to go out and be happy...walk away from it like she was the least important thing that ever happened to you. Even if you're faking it...at some point, it'll be true.
2006-08-02 10:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be like that! What is that really going to resolve? Not much her and her boss will just think that u are a slime ball. U really just have to let it go. Yes she did hurt you, but you just have to learn from that and just move on, don't stoop down to a level that is really hard to get up from, that is just nasty and fowl and mean, I don't think that u would even feel good about yourself after doing that, you may think that u would at this point but trust me I don't think u will. Think to yourself first.. are u a bad person? I know what it is like to have a broken heart.. Just move on and meet someone else.. u will.
2006-08-02 10:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't worth it. I called a guys work and kept telling them that he needed to take a paternity test as an act of revenge. All it got me was a law firm sending a cease and desist letter.
2006-08-02 10:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not. I understand that you are hurt but doing revenge wont heel your wound. Instead focus on finding someone much better than her and living a better life.
2006-08-02 10:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by lalala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO DON'T she may have broken your heart but theres someone else out there and hay you probally could have been perfect for her so shes probal the 1 missin out and trust me its hard to break up with a guy!!!!!
2006-08-02 10:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because she and her bosses could call for legal action and you wouldn't have a leg to stand on. Best thing you can do is forget her, surely you have wasted enough time on her already?
2006-08-02 10:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up...what you do, you okay others to do to you...are you prepared to have yourself exposed in that way?
Treat others as you'd like to be treated...living well is the best revenge...
2006-08-02 10:22:00 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋