hi ,well u r in avery tricky situation.bcos u never know how he would take it.if u say u r sure of loosing ur best friend.coming to him he might think ur jealous of her or h might understand uand leave her.so its better for u.but he has to know so think of some other way.try sitting with ur friend and make her understand that u truely love him,and if she is ur best friend and since she doesnt really love him,she will move away from him herself,if she doesnt do that,then she is not god enough to be ur friend,then u cansit with him and tell him about her,but u urself dont say that u love him,then he'll think u r jealous and trying to break them. if he asks u y? u r doing this sinc she is ur best friend then u say that u love him bcos then he feels that he is more important to u than her.then he'll start thinking about u.he knows the importance of him in ur life.then wiil be the moment for u.ok try this out.and it should work.if it doesnt contact me.
christopher_sasank@yahoomail.com
ok
take care and think before u do.give him the trust on u,and let him understand u.ok
byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
CHRIS
2006-08-02 11:01:46
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answered by BLR_DEHRADUN 2
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That is a dilly of a pickle. Ironically, my answer has nothing to do with your crush on him. More so, the risk for STD's he's been put at because of your selfish friend. I would make her aware of your concerns, and tell her what she is doing is dangerous to an innocent bystander, her boyfriend. However, do you tell him and betray your friend? Looks like you have to decide who is more important to you, and how far your principles go. Do you lose your friend for the feelings you have for this man, lose your friend because you fear for his health and safey, or stay true-blue to your cheating girlfriend....glad its you not me...good luck...
2006-08-02 17:27:11
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answered by burn20out 3
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it depends on how much you like this guy OR how deep your friendship is with your best friend. first confront your friend and let her know what she is doing is wrong! I wouldn't advise choosing any guy over your friend but if she is really hurting him, what does that say about her character? Tell her how you feel about her boyfriend and maybe she'll appreciate him more--if not, he's fair game...tell him about her other guy(s) and be the shoulder he can lean on! Goodluck..
2006-08-02 17:29:06
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answered by Vickster 1
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you should tell him because you like him and you might get a chance with him and its never fun to have someone cheating on you so you should tell him that she is cheating and if he dosnt believe you then you need to prove it to him by taken him out were she is with another guy and show it to him thats shes cheating well i hope you get him and show him that your friend is cheating good luck getting him
2006-08-02 17:27:07
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answered by jenna s 3
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Which relationship do you want? Lets just say you tell him then you will no longer be friends with her. If you tell him he may not want to go out with you? So think before you do. See if he will have any feelinngs towards you before anything. Good Luck!
2006-08-02 17:26:44
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answered by unsure 2
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You risk being the bad girl and loosing a best friend.
Be patient and let things playout...you could be there to pickup the pieces and the boyfreind.
2006-08-02 17:26:35
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answered by ? 6
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all is fair in love and war but really I think you should ask your friend if you can have him since she apprently doesn't. But if you think about it, to him you'd probably be just his rebound girl so tread softly and have lots of paitence. If its meant to be it'll happen
2006-08-02 17:28:16
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answered by roseyroses14 6
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You stand the risk of losing your current best friend! wiegh your actions carefully
2006-08-02 17:24:33
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answered by Arvind C 3
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If she was your best friend, then you wouldn't like her boyfriend for one and two, you should be loyal to you "best" friend.
2006-08-02 17:27:22
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answered by laurie P 1
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MYOB. He'll find out sooner or later.
2006-08-02 17:25:33
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answered by Da Bomb 5
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