My fiance' is mad because I lied to him about who was at my house while he was at work. I lied to protect my cousin cause she brought two guys over and didnt want her boyfriend to know! He thinks I cheated on him b/c I lied and now wants to push our wedding back! What should I do try to change his mind or let it be?! Our wedding is supposed to be this september and I still have stuff to get done!
2006-08-02 10:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by Mallory G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sugar, you shouldn't have lied to your hubby to be. Doesn't matter the reason of why you did it but you broke the trust and now you have to pay the price.
Good luck!
2006-08-02 10:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have lied. I would push it back too. If you lied on something like that, what else will you lie about. Looks as if your cousin is more important than he is. He needs to think about this. Major red flag. Your job is to convince him that it won't happen again.
2006-08-02 10:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by ABN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER LIE to protect anyone because it will always bite you.
Talk ( don't whine) to your fiance and explain what you did and why. Tell him you will not betray his trust again. If he is adament about pushing back the date, then do it. One of you is NOT ready to commit. You never mentioned your age or his. That is important! In order to answer your question, this would help.
2006-08-02 10:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Francine L makes a good point..You messed up big time. Talk with him.
2006-08-02 10:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Shanan D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't say I blame him. You NEVER lie to the man you will be WIFE to! That was real stupid, hoped you learned your lesson.
2006-08-02 10:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um maybe stop lying.
Once you're caught it's hard to just 'erase'.
2006-08-02 10:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by _Kraygh_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋