About a year ago, I fell in love with someone with whom I thought was right for me, but eventually wasn't. Does anyone think that love at first sight can sometimes be wrong?
2006-08-02 10:25:47 · 31 answers · asked by beauty&mind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep....that's was lust will do to you.
2006-08-02 10:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there probably can be love at first sight but then again I think it is more of an attraction thing. The only way to truly fall in love with a person is to get to know that person. So, I think that if you meet someone for the first time and you connect and its not just about physical attraction you two probably could end up sharing a life together it just depends on the situation. But, never regret anything that happened in your life because everything happened for reason. That person might still be right for you if you believe you fell in love with them sometimes I think we just have to go through some things in life to find out what is really meant to be and what it is we really can live without. That guy or girl might have been wrong for you but it was something that you had to go through in order to fully appreciate love the next time it come around. After, you have allowed yourself some time to heal of course.
2006-08-02 10:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Revea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why I don't really believe in love at first sight. It's just attraction, nothing more. Some relationships are not meant to last.
I was involved with someone who I was very very taken with who was as wrong for me as is possible. It was very tumultuous and ended dramatically after a year or so, and now I just have no idea what I was thinking.....
It's just attraction not love. Sometimes it turns into love and that will REALLY mess you up, long term, but the lust-fueled relationships fade away -thank God.
2006-08-02 10:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight... yes, certainly it can be wrong. As it may have been good! Well it is just unpredictable. Something that has been so right for years can turn out to be so wrong in... seconds.
What matters is that you should not fool yourself and keep believing where nothing is to be expected anymore. You can be the only judge and give the sentence.
Take life easy and let go!
2006-08-02 10:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in love at first sight. It is wrong because you're really falling in love with a physically, beautiful person and a fantasy. Just a wait a year and this person will either be more beautiful or down right ugly depending on how they are on the inside.
2006-08-02 10:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by lindakb24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More often than we would like to think. You are jumping into a situation, where you have little or no knowledge of that person, except for the chemistry, you may have.
That's not the best way to do it. Your differences can be vast, with you, not caring for the same music, movies, food, other people etc.
With all that, against you, how can it work. The more you find out about them, often the less you like them, and it's hard to love someone you don't like.
As bad as the dating scene can get, that tried and true method of meeting someone, and getting to know them over a series of dates, is still the best way to go.
You have to kiss a lot of frogs, before you kiss that Prince.
2006-08-02 10:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, God, yes. I fell for a guy that I thought was my Mr. Right. He turned out to be immature and very selfish. I try to convince myself now that I will not have any feelings for a guy until after I get to know him. I KNOW that love at first sight IS wrong! You can't truly love someone until you really know them!
2006-08-02 10:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by harleychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have fallen for someone who is wrong for me, but I would not call it love at first sight. Its just that when you see that person that causes an increase of a certain chemical in the brain (I was half way watching the Discovery Channle). You are physically attracted to to them, but you do not know them any other way.
I liked this guy once, who treated me like crap and used me. It was bad because I was so caught up in him that I just let him treat me how he wanted. Thanks to my stupidity, I will never truly be happy again.
2006-08-02 10:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly do but a lot of times it could be infatuation or someone telling and making you feel good when you just had a bad situation go on in you life at the time you met them and you needed that someone at that time but once you heal from that you find out they wasn't what you thought at all !! I've been through that twice I had hit a depression time in my life and the guys really just took advantage of me and told me what I wanted to hear but they put a smile on my face and I went with the flow, I regret it now!!!
2006-08-02 10:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't really love at first sight. It was more of a gradual crush thing that I was trying to suppress because he was totally wrong for me
2006-08-02 10:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and he was the nut who lied and said it!!I would never go with love at first sight---use your second sight-or your sixth sense!!! Totally wrong!!
2006-08-02 10:31:23 · answer #11 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋