He hasnt released in me for 7 months. I am 20yrs old and want sex all the time. I am lucky to get it. He gets distracted with things all the time. When we start having sex he just stops and gets off me and lays down ready to sleep. I havent *** or orgasimed and visa versa. It started like this when we first started dating a year ago. He has come up with so many excuses that i could make a book. Ive offered to try stuff for him, diff positions, etc. Nothing works. We did have a baby four months ago. But would it seem like my sex drive should be gone, not his. He says its not me and not him. I dont know what to do anymore. Its driving me nutts. I want sex!!!!!
2006-08-02 10:26:42 · 11 answers · asked by dncr62104 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You sound exactly like a friend of mine years ago... also with a child. Eight years together and they had 'completed' sex three times.... things never did improve. He wouldn't go to the doctor, so she never was certain if it was medical, or if he preferred to swing the other way but wouldn't admit it. Regardless of the reason, I wouldn't take it personally.
2006-08-02 10:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by mama_bears_den 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 2 are very young and 20yrs old with a child. Do you 2 have your own place or are you living at one of your folks house? Does he work a lot of hours, are there money issues? Depression can come in many forms. It sounds like he made need counseling or both of you to help solve this problem together. I understand you have needs but it seems he has some deep down needs that sex will not solve. Good luck & hope you 2 can work this problem out.
2006-08-02 17:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tanker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men have that problem young and old. He might need to go to a doctor to get checked out. Because that's not normal. Encourage him to go to the doctor. Because baby or no baby you should be having a normal sex life at least. Don't give up on him yet. Hang in there.
2006-08-02 17:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be the bearer of very bad news, but your BF is not getting what he wants...excitement is a strange thing...it is either there or it isn't, can't be forced. I fear you BF may be trying to fool himself, not you...but there is a very good chance he is a closet case and the hinges are about to explode off the door. You can blame stress, whatever, but...this doesn't sound so straight to me. And I am sure this is not news to you. Unless he finds you unappealling, sex wise, there is little chance it is a med problem. He gets it up, but it goes away. I don't know what else to tell you. Good luck
2006-08-02 17:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to see a doctor.stress,high blood pressure and low testosterone could be the cause of his problem.or he could be cheating on u.guys lie!if none of these r the cause of his problem,get it eleswhere,we all need release!!!!
2006-08-02 17:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by tara a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he realized what happens when you release in someone and now he has to feed it.
2006-08-02 17:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married, get on birth control and get real. You are on a road to hell.
2006-08-02 17:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be more than happy to release for you.
2006-08-02 17:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by ABN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe have him get a coc* ring.......or viagra? He may be young...but it never hurts to try.
2006-08-02 17:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by amandameibeyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's not medical problem, i would wonder who is he releasing in to>?
2006-08-02 17:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by They Love ME......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋