My gf and I have been dating for 3 yrs. We're compatible in almost every way -- similar friends, interests, etc., but different enough not to get bored. We have a great sex life, full of experimentation: new positions, toys, roleplay, dress-up, and even some light D/s (she's the domme). We see this as a long-term relationship and will get married.
We're both 25. f we get married, that's fifty-plus years (hopefully!) of being together and I feel like we're running out of new sexual things already. I want to get into swinging so we can keep meeting new people (swingers) and trying new things. I'm also turned on by the idea of her with another man; this is not about me getting with another woman
The thing is this: she has a traditional view of relationships: just one-on-one. I want to bring up swinging but don't want to scare or threaten her, lead her to think she's inadequate, or completely turn her off to the idea forever.
So: how to do I bring this up/talk to her?
2006-07-28
04:54:04
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