My boyfriend does not like to cuddle, or be held or hold me!
It is so hard sleeping with him in the same bed. Its like sleeping with a stranger, a puppy is more friendly. The problem is I really love him; I think he is the one. How do I get over this??
2006-07-28 05:02:45 · 10 answers · asked by JS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just give it some time and tell him that you really love him. He may just have the same feelings. Some people don't like cuddling or being touched..I know I don't. Tell him how you feel.
2006-07-28 05:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you want to feel loved and cuddling is a part of this. Tell him you dont just want to have sex and thats it, let him know you'ld like to lie in his arms after and before sex. Ask him whats the sense of having an intimate relationship if only go one way and intimacy means mind, body and soul Thats everything if you get what i'm saying.
2006-07-28 05:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by VANILLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need to tell him how you feel if it bothers you so much. Of course, there is no guarantee if he will change for you. This is actually his habit and he might not be the romantic type. Since you want it that way, You might have it for one night or two than a cold back on you again.
If he can't change than you have to decide if you can stand the frustration.
2006-07-28 05:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Noel Yelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't change him. It's difficult to explain without a common frame of reference but some guys feel crowed after sex. It's just their nature. If he does it for you to make you feel good, keep in mind that he feels uncomfortable doing it.
If you feel bad because of his behavior, it will only get worse with time.
Either accept him as he is or move on. Those are your two choices.
2006-07-28 05:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by vmmhg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea...i know exactly how you feel. girls love to be cuddled and talked to. btu the guys are sometimes so tired they just want to go to sleep. but if he does this everytime then i think you should talk to him. if he loves you he can at least show you!
2006-07-28 05:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by lizlatina69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moset guys don't like cuddling (after). However, if you lovingly express how important it is to youand explain how it makes you feel, and he loves you too, he'll do it, if he loves you...
2006-07-28 05:13:41 · answer #6 · answered by jc_moneyman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl i just think you should talk to your man about this because how can he change if you don't let him know it bothers you and if you have told him then what a jerk he is and he will always be one dump his ***!
2006-07-28 05:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by mayra g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess some people just don't like being affectionate. It doesn't mean he don't love you. Just be youself. You can only change yourself. You shouldn't try to change anyone else.
2006-07-28 05:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jonah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him honestly about it. I'm sure he can change.
2006-07-28 05:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by mustangamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel and if he loves you too...he'll do it for you
2006-07-28 05:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by aagee1003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋